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God instituted marriage with a clear cut structure - God as the head of the husband and the husband as the head of the wife.

This structure works only when the husband is submitted to Christ to show to his wife what submission to authority looks like.

Requesting submission as a husband when acting in rebellion is tantamount to anarchy and divine judgement.

This is why it's of utmost importance for every woman to figure out first, their relationship with Christ and use the same parameter in deciding on who to marry. Why? Because, God demands you to submit to your husband in marriage. But trust me, submitting to a lawless, disobedient, rebellious and an ungodly man is one of the hardest thing on earth.

In order to make our homes truly God centred, every husband who knows how important the submission of their wives to them is, and how respect gingers and helps them to function, MUST also know that's what God requires from them.

You can't deny God your submission and respect as a man and go about demanding same. Aba! How do you expect that to work? You could get it by oppressing and suppressing your wife, but it will alter the psyche of your children who would see it as injustice.

To the wives who are already married to husbands who aren't in alignment with the truth, read 2Corinthians 10:6 and use as your compass.

Shalom and a blessed new week!

©️MAMA CATHY
RELATIONSHIP & MARRIAGE COACH

There are several demonic installations emitting negative radiation and making people think and act a certain way contrary to the will of God in their homes.

The thinking pattern and actual lifestyle can be so weird but the victims may not even know how far they've deviated in life, relationships, and moreso marriage, for those married.

How do you judge when a supposed christian thinks cheating on the spouse is ok, withholding good is ok, starving the partner of love, affection and s*x is ok, ganging up with his or her family against their partner is ok, abusing their partner is ok. How???

Some of this people look so good outwardly that you may find it difficult to believe they could be so insensitive and wicked. But trust me, some married persons are so sweet to outsiders and wicked to their spouses( I hope that's not you reading this message).

This post is directed at every christian who is acting out in response to altars and installations remotely controlling them to act as monsters at home and behave as saints to people that will never be there for them should they fall sick or are challenged in any way.

So, ask yourself, why do I do the things I do at home? If your answer appears negative, change and look for help.

©️MAMA CATHY
RELATIONSHIP COACH/MARRIAGE COUNSELOR.

Getting married is the desire of most people especially women. But staying married can be extremely challenging for most people because marriage requires commitment.

Commitment is simply the ability to be matured. It is being willing to pay the price to be faithful, caring, dedicated, loyal, loving, trustworthy to your partner inspite of whatever seasons you find yourself in. It's standing up for your partner before your family, friends and even the society, through their competitive body image emphasis, that your partner is not good enough for you.

Without commitment purposes are frustrated.

Commitment is what makes a partner place his or her spouse above EVERYONE & EVERYTHING else, except Jesus Christ.

In this era of microwave marriage, what do you think makes yours stand out as one of the few committed marriages? Answer in your heart while you let your partner see your commitment level through your actions.

Shalom!

©️Mama Cathy
Relationship Coach/Marriage Counselor

I have come to the conclusion that relationship and marriage as the entry point of humanity to the world has been seriously misunderstood.

A greater percentage of people attribute companionship, love, procreation and the rest to the reason for marriage. But it's much more than that. The earlier we discover and do something about it, the better

Where purpose is not know, abuse is inevitable we often hear. Nothing can be more truer than this statement. After gaining psychological exposure on nature and nurture as one of the blueprint for early childhood development and growth. I have personally come to believe that much of what people become is as a result of their nurturing. So nurture is key, because children model what the see from their parents and caregivers.

Therefore, marrying to misbehave is not so much about your adult dysfunction, but more about the negative impact that behavior has on the next generation.

Certificates, professional achievement, career, titles, bank balance, and religious affiliation contribute very little to society's sustainability. Family, through great morally rich and value based marriages remains the only guarantee.

There are marriages that the above is missing inspite of the effort of one partner.

So, it's time to take responsibility for our behavior, attitude and lifestyle. Enough of the carelessness, perversion, irresponsible behavior and the rest.

Complaining of how society is decaying without changing the narratives from your personal life is self sabotage.

Shalom!
©️ MAMA CATHY ONWIODUOKIT