KURL Explicit

SIS, no matter how much you pour into a man, if you are NOT THE ONE, no amount of love, encouragement, gifts and good s*x is going to change that. He will only keep you as a placeholder, as he searches for Ms. Right.

You will become bitter and miserable trying to understand how he can be so loving, caring and intimate while y’all are in the bedroom, but at the same time never discussing any future plans or commitments.

If you feel like you are forcing communication, forcing connections, and pleading with him to take things more seriously then he is NOT THE ONE and you are watering a dead plant,

with a man that’s into you, you won’t have to force anything, and you will feel loved and valued even outside of the bedroom!

Most men won’t stop you from pouring into them even if they know you aren’t the one, as long as their needs are being filled that’s all they care about. Stop pouring into him, just to still feel lonely!