Armed Forces Community Support Hub - Devon/Exeter

It is with immense sadness that we share the passing of our dearly loved Hubster, Laurence Skinner, who crossed the bar this week after a short illness, surrounded by the love of his family. Laurence proudly served in the Royal Navy as a Leading Seaman from 1947–1955, travelling across the Mediterranean, the Middle East, South Africa and beyond. By all accounts, if the Navy had found a way to anchor on the moon, Laurence would probably have been there too — kettle on, spinning dits and sorting everyone out.

To know Laurence was to love him. He became part of the very heartbeat of the HUB — a cherished friend, shipmate, storyteller and gentle soul whose presence could light up a room quicker than a matelot spotting fresh tea and a bacon butty. Whether at a HUB Breakfast Club, Bacon n Banter at GMC Lympstone, or sat proudly among fellow veterans “swinging the lamp”, Laurence brought laughter, warmth, kindness and the kind of naval humour that only comes from a life well lived at sea. He had a remarkable gift for storytelling. Laurence shared incredible memories from his service, including helping evacuate refugees from Vietnam, where babies were born aboard ship during the operation. He spoke often of caring for the children and trying to keep spirits high during frightening times — stories told not for glory, but with humility, compassion and that unmistakable twinkle in his eye.

But amongst all his adventures, the greatest pride in Laurence’s life was always his family. The bond he shared with his daughter Leslie and grandson Mark was something truly special and deeply moving to witness. They were his safe harbour, his crew and his greatest joy. The love, care and devotion between them shone brightly and never wavered. We know how proud Laurence was of them both, and how fiercely loved he was in return.

Laurence was adored by the HUB staff, volunteers and members alike. New members were instantly put at ease by him. Old hands sought him out for banter, wisdom and stories that usually became slightly more dramatic with every telling — as all proper naval stories should. He made people feel seen, welcomed and valued. You could never leave a conversation with Laurence without smiling.

His legacy will continue to live on through his wonderful book, “From Country Boy to Ganges Boy – and Beyond”, published at the incredible age of 95. With the support of fellow Hubster Angie, who spent months lovingly transcribing his handwritten diaries, Laurence achieved something he once thought impossible. A proper bit of teamwork worthy of a Royal Navy cheer and, no doubt, several rounds of rum afterwards.

Laurence also leaves his mark on the HUB Community Garden. The cherry blossom trees and bulbs he donated will bloom each year as a living reminder of a man who brought beauty, kindness and life wherever he went.

Laurence often said:
“Come along to the HUB and be sociable. Give it a go. It’s a peaceful, safe and supportive haven for anyone who has served.” That was Laurence through and through — welcoming, caring, humble and forever ready with a sea story, a cheeky grin and a bit of matelot mischief.

From every member, volunteer and staff member at the Armed Forces Community Support HUB — Laurence, we salute you. Thank you for your service, your friendship, your humour, your wisdom and the enormous love you gave this community. Our deepest love and sympathies go to Leslie, Mark and all of Laurence’s family and friends. You shared him with us, and we will carry his memory proudly.

Fair winds and following seas, Leading Seaman Skinner. The mess deck will not be the same without you, and somewhere above, we suspect the stokers have already been warned to brace themselves for the arrival of one very charming sailor with a lifetime of stories to tell.

Funeral details will be shared in due course. ⚓️ Please share any stories or happy memories of Laurence for the family to enjoy.

HUB Weekly Activities — Week Commencing 25 May 2026

Tuesday 26 May | 10:00 | Exminster Golf Centre Veterans Drop-In
Fall in for a relaxed morning of golf, good company, and proper military-grade banter. Whether you’re a seasoned golfer or have never swung a club in your life, this is a cracking chance to unwind, meet fellow veterans, and enjoy a cuppa and bacon bap. Equipment provided, parking free, morale guaranteed.
£6: Cuppa & bacon bap
£10: Cuppa, bacon bap & a bucket of balls on the range
Address: Exminster Golf Centre, Exminster Hill, Exeter EX6 8GA

Wednesday 27 May | 10:00 | Veterans Wellbeing Day at The Donkey Sanctuary
Take a tactical pause from the everyday and join us for a peaceful wellbeing day surrounded by nature, friendly faces, and some very charming donkeys. Enjoy gentle wellbeing activities, time to wander the beautiful grounds, and the chance to meet Wonky the Donkey and friends. Bring a picnic, car share if possible, and settle into a day of calm connection and fresh air.
Address: The Donkey Sanctuary, Slade House Farm, Sidmouth, EX10 0NU
Meeting Point: Wellbeing Centre

Thursday 28 May | 10:00 | Bacon ‘n’ Banter – GMC Lympstone
Attention to breakfast. Join us for bacon baps, brews, and the ongoing battle for the legendary Norman Cup. Expect competitive dominoes, questionable tactical decisions, and enough banter to keep spirits high all morning. Bring a mate, enjoy the camaraderie, and remember—the only standards inspection today is the quality of the fry-up. Suggested donation: £5.

Friday 29 May | 09:00 | Topsham Breakfast Club
Start the weekend with a solid breakfast, relaxed conversation, and good company at our friendly Topsham Breakfast Club. Whether you fancy a full fry-up or simply a brew and a catch-up, you’ll find a warm welcome waiting.
Address: Estuary League of Friends, Nancy Potter House, Topsham

Open to veterans, serving personnel, and families—because no one should face life’s operations alone.

For more information: [email protected]