Soul Renaissance by Reconnection

When somebody is a "pain in the ***"…:-))

There are 2 sides to this:

1. WHY THEY ARE DOING IT - and it is mostly for them to resolve.

But for us it is helpful to consider this:

Some people live on the energy of the horizontal interactions with others, they cannot help it, it’s their default mode. They didn’t ignite their own connection, they feel bad as their connection is weak and they simply lack energy and they do not know how to improve it.
The idea that helped me through a lot of stuff was “EVERY PERSON AT ANY GIVEN MOMENT IS ACTING ACCORDING TO THEIR BEST ABILITIES… THEY JUST DO NOT KNOW ANY BETTER”.
They’ve been through lots of stuff during their multiple incarnations. They suffered. All that is imprinted in their energetic signature. That is for them to solve and work on it.
But when YOU understand it this deep, it helps you to BE COMPASSIONATE to them on their journey.
When you witness their journey with compassionate understanding on the inner level (outside you can be emotional, even hysterical) you can make a huge difference. That allows you to feel that they doing this for their own reasons and it is not YOU who is responsible for it. And you can finally
CLAIM BACK YOUR POWER BY APPRECIATING YOURSELF AND ROOT YOURSELF DEEPLY IN THE PRECIOUSNESS OF YOUR INNER BEING.

I’m not calling on you to comply with whatever they are doing. You should not. On the outer level you can be whatever you feel you need to be - be emotional, be natural, introduce your boundaries, claim back your territory etc. On the outer level your response should be adequate to their action.

Sometimes it is absolutely not the case, then the person is just the activator for us. And the energy leakage is due to our resistance when we do not want to hear the message...

2. WHY WE ARE REACTING TO IT

You’ve also been through a lot. We all have baggage. If not for important people in our lives, how on earth would we know where those most painful spots are? How would we know where we need to work on ourselves? They are driving force for our evolution and development, for our spiritual transformation and growth.

First of all, let's be grateful to them. They are just the messengers. They are revealing something very important for our growth at the moment. The more important this person is in your life, the more important the message they bring. If the issue had nothing to do with you, would it matter? Would you even bother?
You can sit in a meditation and ask yourself: “What is there truthfully for me? what is the message behind this behaviour (issue, feeling, event)?” Something can be super irritating on the superficial level of being stuck in the same place for a prolonged period of time, but look for the deeper FEELING - how this irritating behaviour makes you FEEL deep inside. Now you need to be compassionate to yourself and witness YOU going through this with love.
Often, this comes just a reminder of those feelings being buried very deep inside, and when you NOTICE, WITNESS, APPRECIATE AND HOLD A COMPASSIONATE ATTENTION to the feeling, it is being healed.

BLESS BOTH OF YOU WITH THE PUREST DIVINE LOVE OF THE SOURCE, and ask for the complementary energy to be downloaded to transmute your issue.

As for me personally, UNDERSTANDING is incredibly important, the understanding alone can sometimes solve the problem completely, up to the level of physical issue is being resolved.

So I’ll be very grateful if you ask questions if smh is not clear for you in my expression on this matter, that will help me to clarify.
Thank you