Mind Transformation Concept

Your body is a temple of the Most High God. You’re not a sick person trying to get well; you’re a well person fighting off sickness. You’re not an addict trying to get free; you’re a free person fighting an addiction. You’re not a poor person trying to get ahead; you’re a prosperous person fighting off poverty. You’re not a slave to any negative thing. You were created to be free, whole, healthy and blessed.

It's a new day, new visions, new dreams and new ideas. God will give you the needed ideas to develop the needed strategies and garnish it with the equivalent opportunities that Will make your dreams come true to the glory of God and your overall fulfillment in Jesus name. You are greatness personified.

'Friendly' as defined by the dictionary means "being generally warm, approachable and easy to relate with in character". 'Deadly' on the other hand, from the same source is defined as " aiming or willing to destroy ". Likewise, a 'friend' is defined as someone other than one's family member, spouse or lover whose company one enjoys and towards whom one feels affection(feeling of love or strong attachment). It is this feeling of love or strong attachment experienced by singles in an opposite s*x relationship that results in either an intimate relationship or a lifelong platonic relationship the Bible describes in Prov. 18:24B. True friends usually are confidants on whom one can confide in, share, ideas as well as dreams, be one's prayer partner, study partner and so on. In this way, both individuals pose a positive challenge to each other as they spur each other on to achieve their dreams and aspirations. Prov. 27:17. Therefore, they mourn losses, as well as celebrate successes together. Most friendship is built on this basis, however, it becomes deadly when the intent of one of the parties changes. The intent of a friend could change if he/she gives room to 'lust' such that him/her begins to have s*xual desire for his/her friend and goes further to expressing this through some affectionate seemingly harmless touches and when this is readily welcomed by the other individual, it only graduates gradually into something other than what they bargained for just like a pidgin proverb rightly states that "na from clap e dey enter dance". The warm, approachable disposition of a man can easily mislead a lady into building strong emotionally feelings for him and vice versa. This could have disastrous consequences if not put in check. To prevent such from happening, friendship should be composed of the following: -it should be defined at every stage. -there should be reasonable boundaries. -meetings should be in the open or supervised if secret. -friends should learn to question anything strange or contrary to their integrity. - friends should learn to say 'no' when necessary or important. -feelings(emotions) should be detached in friendship. Finally, someone once said " you only attract who you are, not what you want. Thus, be sure to imbibe the qualities of a good friend first before you can attract the right friends whose friendship will not be toxic but inspiring, spurring you to greater heights. Prov18:24B.
By
Eseoghene Ogboru
Mind Transformation Guild on Whatsapp
Ongoing Help Me I am Single Congress!