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Be kind to yourself 💗

For years, I let the inner mean girl in my head run the show. It sucked away all my happiness, my joy and my outlook on the world.

But I made the choice in 2022 to finally stop listening to that inner mean girl and started listening to the things in my heart that would best serve me and make me happy.

I wasn't going to allow this inner mean girl to rob my happiness anymore.

If you are having a hard time with negative self talk, negative self beliefs and that pesky inner mean girl..

It doesn't have to be that way.

You can consciously choose every single day when you wake up to choose happiness ✨

To choose freedom ✨

To choose self empowering self talk ✨

And just to make different choices in every moment

So don't let the mean girls in your head ruin the happiness in your heart.

Because your heart is telling the truth.

Double tap if this resonates with you 🥰

My heart is so full 🥰​​​​​​​​
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This year has been big for me. Both personally and professionally. ​​​​​​​​
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And I have felt support from all of you in so many different ways. ​​​​​​​​
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I've changed a lot this year. Who I am continues to evolve and how I continue to show up in the world is doing the same. ​​​​​​​​
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This fall, I decided to stop doing hair and focus on my salon in other ways. I decided to step fully into myself, my passions, my healing and the gifts that I have to share with the world. ​​​​​​​​
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So thank you.​​​​​​​​
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To everyone who has supported me in any single way. Big or small.​​​​​​​​
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I am feeling incredibly grateful to every one who has been apart of my journey this year.​​​​​​​​
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And I can't wait to share what's next with all of you for 2023. ✨​​​​​​​​
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I want to be honest with you about something.​​​​​​​​
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I have a mean girl that lives inside of my mind sometimes, and she's been there for a long time. ​​​​​​​​
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She doesn't come around very often anymore -- because I have developed a routine to heal and to cultivate authentic and real SELF LOVE. ​​​​​​​​
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I used to say things like ​​​​​​​​
"You failed...again!" ​​​​​​​​
"You can't stick to anything!" ​​​​​​​​
"Who do you think you are?!?" ​​​​​​​​
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A lot has changed over the years, because of a simple mindset shift. ​​​​​​​​
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I started using the sentence​​​​​​​​
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I LOVE MYSELF ENOUGH TO.... ​​​​​​​​
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This helps me to put self love at the forefront which allows the negative mindset to be shifted.​​​​​​​​
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At first, it might feel clunky or it might feel inauthentic. But over time, you will truly and deeply begin to believe it in your heart. ​​​​​​​​
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What is one part of yourself that needs a little bit more love today? Leave it in the comments or share with me in my DM's if you want to keep it private! ​​​​​​​​
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Love, ​​​​​​​​
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Jody ​​​​​​​​
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