Sunday Confessions

I hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas.

New Years is just around the corner and my social media feeds, and probably yours, are filled with New Years Resolutions posts, how to organize yourself better ads, exercise product ads, etc. If it has anything to do with what most people make their New Years Resolutions on, we are seeing ads for it right now.

This brings us to this week’s Lesson #7: Forgiveness

My New Years Resolutions are simple and embrace realization.

2026 is for forgiveness, new strength, new knowledge and growth.

I forgive myself for not knowing how to handle past situations any better at the time. I will quit beating myself up about this and will no longer dwell on the past. I can’t change it. I can’t erase it. I can only learn from it.

I will continue to work on the strong foundation I am now building for me, my children and my family. This strength will allow me to grow in ways I’ve always wanted to.

I will continue to learn and grow from the many lessons I’ve learned from allowing myself to be “less than” and “powerless”. I am not!

My 2026 New Years Resolutions are short and complete. They are the three pillars I’ll be focusing on.

I completely understand that a New Year won’t fix my life. It won’t erase what hurt or undo what failed.

If I want things to change, I need to be consistent with my effort and brutally honest with myself always.

I also am learning that if I need to pivot from something I had my heart set on because of things out of my control, then I pivot. I won’t dwell or consider it a failure. I know I can always pivot back.

I am moving into 2026 finding my peace and a sense of greater well-being.

I hope you are too.

Maybe I haven’t learned this a long time ago, but I am most certainly doing so now.
Especially with part of the unliminted therpay I receive for being wrongfully arrested.
Hard to steal and bankrupt someone when they are in full control of finances and spending….
(Yes, yes there is proof, why I do not have a record) 😝😂

If you think it’s a red flag, if you question behaviour and things that are being said, it’s a
RED FLAG and listen to your intuition.
It’s like my red flag buzzer was going off non stop when one business partner(not myself) was in full control of finances. It happened slowly and oddly..
Buying supplies, paying cash to p/t employees, making monthly payments, But never a pay-check for me..
Who works for a year without being paid?!
And no matter how much they tell you it’s to help you out….. it isn’t.
And when they get angry when you start questioning and demanding to see where all the money is being spent & where it’s going and then they start a smear campaign against you.
Yup it’s a RED FLAG!!!!!!
Business 101…
Life’s hard lessons, I have learned and something I deal with is the stupidity of myself for trusting and believing in my partners. In doing so it effected more than just me.
My parents, kids and people in my immediate circle. I lost alot more than money & material things.
Red flag in begining is the red flags in the end!
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