Kiar Counselling

As of June 29th, 2020
Judy Kiar Counselling

Will be changing locations.
For information on this or to book an appointment, email:

[email protected]
[email protected]
or call:
613-271-8880

Defensive is very destructive to relationships.

Long-lasting love requires courage. The courage to be vulnerable and to listen non-defensively, even in the heat of conflict. When the listener reacts to what the speaker is saying before the speaker gets the chance to fully explain themselves, both partners are left feeling misunderstood.

What's the key to listening non-defensively? Self-soothe to listen. Discover tools to improve your non-defensive listening on the Gottman Relationship Blog: https://bit.ly/2TWosW3

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