Nancy Allen

This phrase can be a game-changer in our day to day and ultimately the long run IF we let it.

Let me explain...

When we come from a calm and centred place of "everything is happening FOR me, (YES, even the perceived crap 💩) it changes the way we see/perceive
1. the situation
2. our role in it
3. any problem solving/adjusting/letting go that might be necessary for the statement to be true.

Situations are just what they are, neither good or bad. It is the way in which we perceive them that creates the good or bad.

I know, I know, some times some situations certainly suck! Gah...

However, when a we take a moment in those sucky situations to say " Hey Nancy (insert your name here) If the Universe is conspiring for me then how is this particular situation working FOR me?

Hmmmm 🤔

Do it and see what happens. Your brilliant, beautiful mind starts to show you the ways in which your current situation is indeed working in your favour! what can you learn, what can you let go of?, what can you forgive? What can you shift on the spot and move into a more "i'm responsible for me and my emotions instead of I'm a victim? I wonder.

I will admit, this type of awareness and inquiry takes practice so I suggest to start with low stakes situations like traffic or something getting cancelled etc. Build your muscles in this area and watch your life change little by little. And your general overall peace and well-being.

Happy Wednesday!

Big Love 💗
Nancy

Does this happen to anyone else?

I mean really brain? Can’t you just find ways to help me reach my goals instead of making up all kinds of stories and excuses to not keep my commitment to myself? 🙄

I know I don’t enjoy being told what to do, apparently, even by myself! 😂

Does this happen to any of you? What do you do? I am grateful that I have lots of tools in my toolbox to help me be aware of it and then push past the resistance.

Today it was a time deadline of midnight and simply post what was on my mind.

I also asked myself this question…
How can I make this easy? 🤔

Ok, day 2 in the books.
Nancy 1 | Resistance 0

Happy Sunday Night
Big ❤️
Nancy

Sitting on my front porch this past weekend and looking at the brand new hydrangea flowers growing I was reminded of a life truth…

100’s of tiny blooms(actions) clustered together will create one magnificent bloom. Each of these small blooms are needed in order to create the whole. Each small bloom perfect in itself and as part of the whole equally important.

This is also true for any goal/outcome we want to achieve in life. The magnificent whole (outcome) is made up of equally important smaller steps (goals).

It was a good reminder for me to stay present in the smaller steps (always keeping the whole(bigger outcome) in mind, and enjoy creating and completing all the other beautiful actions/steps along the way!

I wonder… what magnificent whole are you creating this week by taking and creating all the smaller steps? How are you staying present? And who else LOVES Hydrangea in all their gloriousness! 👇

Big Love
Nancy