NKP Alchemy

I’ve finally updated my website to reflect the work I’m most passionate about—children’s law and divorce coaching. 💙
If you or someone you know might need support, it would be my privilege to serve.

www.nicollekp.com

“You get an A+ Nicolle.”
That made my day.

Today, I realized being a children’s lawyer is a bit like directing an animated movie. It needs to land with the target audience—the kids—so they understand the story, the characters, and the message. But it also has to have enough depth for the adults to connect with it in their own way, to see their reality and experiences reflected in it.

Those words above came from my 8-year-old client after I shared my Disclosure Memo with her. I handed her a red pen and said, “Grade my script.”

As a people pleaser, of course I was thrilled with my grade. But even more, I was moved knowing that the hours I’d spent listening to her story, and putting her views and preferences into words, had made her feel heard and understood. Let’s just say it was worth celebrating—with a Slushee and popcorn.

This is my work. And days like this make me deeply grateful for the privilege of waking up and serving my child clients.

✨ MASTERING YOUR SEPARATION WORKSHOP ✨

This workshop has been running successfully since 2019 through Jewish Family and Child Services.

Separation is difficult, but it can also be a journey of growth. This workshop will help open your heart and mind to:

🌱 Understanding conflict & emotional triggers – Build self-worth and awareness throughout the separation process.

🧠 Emotional Intelligence in negotiations – Understand how emotions (yours and your partner’s) influence communication and resolution.

💆‍♀️ Stress reduction techniques – Learn tools to bring wisdom and calm to every situation.

You can’t control everything, but you can control your response.

Let wisdom and insight guide you. 🌟

For more information call 416 638 7800 xt 6234
or register online at www.jfandcs.com

THE PAUSE OF AWARENESS

The power we have is our awareness, and you can develop it right now.

Start paying attention to which websites you visit, how often you are looking at your phone and how long you are spending in front of a screen all day.

Life is so busy.

Very often we get caught up in the busyness of life.

We can’t catch our breath before we are running to the next meeting, task or responsibility.

In this busyness, we have lost the ability to be still and to pause.

When we don’t like what we are doing, we feel distracted or bored and we find ourselves turning to our e-mails, our phone apps and social media sites.

If we actually pay attention to this, we will notice the cycle of habit we fall back on.

This small realization gives one the space to make a choice.

To choose to use time wisely or to continue with the cycle of habit.

Paying attention to what we are doing at any given moment brings with it a moment to pause.

To breathe. To be.
Happy Sunday everyone

Facing the Crisis

The University of Detroit Mercy School of Law's research reveals a stark reality:
📢 96% of law students experience stress.
📢25% are at risk for alcoholism.
📢17% suffer from depression.
📢37% report mild to severe anxiety.
📢6% have had suicidal thoughts in the past year.
📢36% of lawyers surveyed by the ABA meet criteria for problematic drinking.
📢9% admit to abusing prescription pills.
American attorneys rank as the 5th most at-risk occupation for completed suicides. The global situation is likely similar.

Risk Factors:
💡 Trauma
💡Secrecy
💡Environment
If this is the mindset and energy entering the legal profession, imagine the long-term impact on the field. It’s clear: the profession is scarred and in need of healing.
We must do better. We need Protective and Proactive Measures :
🔑Awareness
🔑Normalization
🔑Community THIS IS THE KEY COMPONENT TO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
For nearly six years, I have been advocating and sharing resources to promote wellness in the legal profession. We must be the change we wish to see.

Free wellness resources are available on my website: www.NicolleKP.com
If you feel alone and need to chat, please feel free to reach out. I am here 👋🏻

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