Kayla Ashton

I’m such a mom’s mom now… 💯
Like… girl, you HAVE to do what works for you.

Because the noise?
The rules.
The “you shoulds.”
The fear dressed up as advice?
That s**t will have you abandoning yourself faster than anything else. And it’ll probably drive you crazy like it did me. Until I said F**k it. I’m her mother. And I DO know best.

Now, I’m all about protecting my peace.
Staying regulated.
Minimizing stress.
Filling my cup on purpose — because that’s how you raise a regulated child. Not by martyring yourself. Not by spiraling. Not by white-knuckling motherhood to prove a point.🙄

So many things we’re told as new moms feel like betrayal. Especially if it’s your first time like me and you don’t know what the hell you’re doing to begin with 😬
But here’s the truth…
Your mom gut is SO powerful. ACCURATE AF. And true.
It’s intelligent.
It’s attuned.
And when you combine it with self-trust you become unstoppable.
It’s a real BIOLOGICAL Superpower in my opinion..

But the point I’m trying to make is that-
You’re allowed to choose the path that brings more calm, not more chaos.
You’re allowed to “mom” in a way that keeps you whole.
You’re allowed to do this differently.

But I am soooo curious, Mommies:
👉 What were you told that betrayed you as a new mom?
👉 And how many of you eventually said F**K IT and followed your gut anyway/what was it?

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We’re not doing fear-based motherhood over here. We’re doing regulated, peaceful, aligned parenting, and trusting ourselves while we do it. Mommies (and Daddies), I am sending you all so much love and support. I see you. 🫡💕