Mmoloki Nakedi 3rd

Quickies are important in a relationship😔

Don't underestimate my ability to cut off people I love. I can cut off 10 years of friendship and family members who disrespect me.

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You can’t stop a person from doing what they want to do. No matter how much you talk, explain, warn, or beg… if someone is committed to their own ways, they will continue exactly as they choose. Because change doesn’t come from pressure, it comes from willingness. And if they don’t want to change, nothing you say will matter.

What hurts the most is that instead of being honest, they’ll start hiding things from you. They’ll deny, they’ll minimize, and eventually, they’ll start lying. Not because they don’t know it’s wrong, but because they want to keep doing it without facing the consequences. They want the freedom and the comfort of having you around, even if they don’t deserve you.

It takes maturity to understand this:
You can’t “save” someone who enjoys the same behavior that keeps hurting you.
You can’t guide someone who isn’t willing to listen.
You can’t build with someone who keeps choosing their habits over your trust.

At some point, you have to step back and protect your peace. Stop trying to force loyalty out of people who don’t even value honesty. Stop breaking yourself to keep others whole. Stop carrying people who are comfortable dragging you down.

People show you who they are through their actions, pay attention.
And when the truth becomes too loud to ignore, let it guide your next step.
Sometimes the strongest thing you can do is let them go and give yourself the chance to heal, grow, and find someone who chooses you without excuses, lies, or conditions.

Your peace, your boundaries, and your emotional health are worth far more than someone’s unwillingness to grow.

Sometimes you need a fresh start just to get rid of everything going wrong. Delete a number. Unfollow ppl who spread negativity. Block a ex. Get out of that relationship which is getting toxic. Whatever it takes to get your peace & live your best life .. DO IT!✨

Bathong I have a problem le girlfriend yame ,she doesn't like or comment on my status or anything but she comment on other boys posts, why????

Help me out should I stay there or leave her for the dogs..to eat ..

My girlfriend sent me a gud morning message o re gud morning my smile keeper nd later at night she sends again gud night message ,
She doesn't cares on afternoon 💔💔💔💔