RESET Rebel

✨ 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐩𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐭 𝐥𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐨𝐩 𝟓𝟓? 𝐎𝐟 𝐛𝐞𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐢𝐬𝐭?⁣⁣⁣
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Ze keek me twijfelend aan tijdens ons gesprek. Een succesvolle onderneemster, altijd bezig met anderen, maar nu vroeg ze zich af:⁣⁣
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"Heeft het nog zin? Ik ben 55, ⁣⁣
𝐤𝐚𝐧 𝐢𝐤 𝐧𝐨𝐠 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧, 𝐰𝐢𝐥 𝐢𝐤 𝐧𝐨𝐠 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧?"⁣⁣
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Ze zorgt voor iedereen, maar als ze zelf hulp nodig heeft, is er niemand. "Ja, ik kan niet ontvangen," herkent ze. Maar dan vraagt ze zich af: "Kan ik nu nog veranderen?" 🤔⁣⁣
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Op 55 heb je misschien een succesvol bedrijf, een gezin, maar... ⁣⁣
𝐈𝐬 𝐡𝐞𝐭 𝐧𝐮 𝐧𝐢𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐢𝐣𝐝 𝐨𝐦 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐥 𝐭𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐚𝐧 𝐛𝐢𝐣 𝐣𝐞𝐳𝐞𝐥𝐟? 💭⁣⁣
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We veranderen allemaal, continu. Zelfs met elke ademhaling. De vraag is niet óf je verandert, maar 𝐡𝐨𝐞 je verandert. 🌱⁣⁣
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Kun je op 55 nog een nieuwe auto kopen? Ja. Kun je nog op reis gaan, of zelfs een nieuwe carrière starten? Absoluut.⁣⁣
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𝐕𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐤𝐚𝐧 𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐚𝐧𝐣𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐳𝐢𝐣𝐧. 𝐌𝐚𝐚𝐫 𝐰𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐡𝐞𝐭 𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐟?⁣⁣
𝐁𝐥𝐢𝐣𝐯𝐞𝐧 𝐳𝐨𝐚𝐥𝐬 𝐣𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐧𝐭, 𝐧𝐨𝐠 𝟑𝟎 𝐨𝐟 𝟒𝟎 𝐣𝐚𝐚𝐫 𝐦𝐞𝐭 𝐝𝐞𝐳𝐞𝐥𝐟𝐝𝐞 𝐩𝐢𝐣𝐧? 😔⁣⁣
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Ook als je stopt met werken, blijf jij dezelfde persoon. 𝐃𝐞 𝐯𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐰 𝐝𝐢𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐢𝐣𝐝 𝐯𝐨𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐧 𝐤𝐥𝐚𝐚𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐚𝐭, 𝐦𝐚𝐚𝐫 𝐳𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐯𝐚𝐚𝐤 𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐞𝐧 𝐢𝐬.⁣⁣
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Het leven stopt niet op 55.⁣⁣
Het stopt pas als jij besluit dat het stopt. Wil je echt de komende jaren besteden met hetzelfde gevoel van gemis en onvervuldheid?⁣⁣
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🔑 𝐃𝐞 𝐯𝐫𝐚𝐚𝐠 𝐢𝐬 𝐬𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐞𝐥: 𝐛𝐥𝐢𝐣𝐟 𝐣𝐞 𝐳𝐨𝐚𝐥𝐬 𝐣𝐞 𝐧𝐮 𝐛𝐞𝐧𝐭, 𝐨𝐟 𝐤𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐣𝐞 𝐯𝐨𝐨𝐫 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐞𝐢?⁣⁣
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𝘌𝘯 𝘢𝘭𝘴 𝘫𝘦 𝘵𝘸𝘪𝘫𝘧𝘦𝘭𝘵... 𝘥𝘢𝘯 𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘢𝘢𝘳𝘴𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘫𝘯𝘭𝘪𝘫𝘬 𝘫𝘶𝘪𝘴𝘵 𝘩𝘦𝘵 𝘵𝘦𝘬𝘦𝘯 𝘥𝘢𝘵 𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘯𝘰𝘥𝘪𝘨 𝘪𝘴.⁣⁣⁣
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𝘞𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘸𝘢𝘢𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘵𝘸𝘪𝘫𝘧𝘦𝘭𝘦𝘯 𝘢𝘭𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘴 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘧𝘦𝘤𝘵 𝘪𝘴? 🌟

"𝐢𝐭'𝐬 𝐟𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠, 𝐢𝐭'𝐬 𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐦𝐞 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐟𝐲𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨𝐨⁣
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Be my authentic self, speak my thoughts, be true to myself and my word, be present, not stuck in my⁣
head, feel and listen to my feelings. Stop fooling myself and identifying myself with this tiny little bit⁣
called brain.⁣
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I feel scary, hopeless. It's eating me alive.⁣"
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These were my very own words! ⁣
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Reading back an intake form of the most amazing coach Bia Bliss who got me on the path of actually feeling my body.⁣
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Can you feel the pain, the struggle the "somebody please help me?!" ⁣
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Things have changed a lot since then! I've been confronting my fears, my doubts, my struggles.⁣
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Is my life now pure bliss and worry free? ⁣
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Surely not! Though I am becoming a master in searching for the lesson and bliss in every uncomfortable event.⁣
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Liberating myself from my own, self-told (and imposed) stories.⁣
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It's about learning to be honest with yourself. Owning your responsibility and owning the fact that you do have a choice, every second again.⁣
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How's your life? Thriving? Going in the direction you want? ⁣
Or is it rather "mwah - I'm in a golden cage"
or maybe: "my life downright sucks!"⁣
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If you want to discover your choices, shine light on what's holding you back. I'm here to help. No strings attached.⁣
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The first step is yours to take, reach out.⁣
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𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧'𝐭 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐛𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐭, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝𝐧'𝐭 𝐛𝐞 𝐫𝐮𝐧𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚 𝐛𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬⁣
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“Your approach is quite confrontational.”⁣
“Yes” I reply “I'm happy to believe that it hits home. Don't your figures, or rather non-figures, hit home that hard?”⁣
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A startled face looks back at me, not knowing what to answer now.⁣
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He can now go sit in a corner and curse at my brutal but loving confrontation with his own bu****it. ⁣
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In the meantime, he has no revenue, apart from some pocket money, he can't pay off his loan and he can't feed his children.⁣
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If you are unable to look at your own bu****it, then stay employed. ⁣
Because reality will catch up with you sooner or later.⁣
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Whether this is about a starting entrepreneur or an "established entrepreneur", my opinion remains the same. Only then it's about different figures or perhaps about your relationship.⁣
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As an entrepreneur, you are extra confronted with your own bu****it. ⁣
And you can't avoid it, you can't deny it. When you deny it, sooner or later it will hit you hard.⁣
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For one it is a heart attack, a burnout, for the other a divorce or bankruptcy.⁣
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You actually only have 2 choices: Face your own bu****it or wait for the consequences that come your way⁣
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It is a choice, just like vanilla ice cream or stratiatella ice cream.⁣
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If you are ready to face your bu****it and also take effective steps, I love to make time for a free coaching call. ⁣
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When get to the bottom of what you have been struggling with for so many years and it clicks, then you are also prepared to take steps and make a change.⁣
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Otherwise, you can better read a book or ask chat-gpt for some advice.⁣
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What do you think, keep messing around or ready for a drastic change, and earthquake?⁣
Send me a DM if you need an earthquake!⁣