Cassandra Loux

I had a Britney moment ✂️✂️

But for real… it’s symbolic. What else screams I just cut ties with my old life and I’m about to quantum leap into a whole new reality? 🫣🤭😎

Nearly didn’t board my flight because I was shaky af 🫠

This is what no one tells you when you’re going through an identity shift.

It’s not fun.

Your ego is pulling you back, so much so that you question everything, self sabotage the progress. It likes to keep you safe.

But that’s where you need to lean in.

I wanted to be the victim. After all, I’d experienced trauma, been gaslit, and had a newborn baby. I was the vulnerable one.

Until that story no longer served me.
Until I was trying so hard to meet the next version of myself, who (to be quite frank) was probably repelled by me 🥲

Because I didn’t even give myself the time to actually heal. I didn’t give myself the space to process, to meet the darker side of myself that was running the show.

And when I finally did. My body moved without me TRYING, everything just became easier.

Thennnnnn, I finally got to evolve & I became ‘her’ through embodiment not through force.

❤️