Mind Torque

Sometimes you reach a point in life when "YOU" have to decide what matters more to you.

Maybe its that moment you start saying what you really think.
Or finally setting firmer boundaries.
Or living in alignment with what you really want…
Being YOU...

And unfortunately some people won’t like it - and that's ok.....
Let Them.

The right people in your life. They do not want you to shrink, soften, or pretend.
They want YOU - the honest version.

APPROVAL doesn't come from losing your authenticity.

Being you is your power.
Your healing is your responsibility.
Your life is your own.
Love yourself first - always you first beautiful Soul...

YOU are never worth that trade.” - Mel Robbins

Vivienne ❤️💛💜

One of the most freeing lessons in life is realizing that people will always have opinions—and thats just what they are "an opinion" we do not have to agree!

I used to carry the weight of everyone’s opinions - family, friends and work colleagues.
I just wanted to be liked, accepted, and approved
However, no matter how much I did - whether I succeeded, fail, try, or stay still it was never enough.

Then one day I woke up and realised that if I kept living for everyone's approval, I may never fully live my own life.

It dawn on me to just let things fall apart........
My lesson was STOP exhausting myself trying to hold everything together.

Not everything is meant to last forever, and forcing what is already breaking will only drain you......
Sometimes, the best thing you can do is to LET GO.

Let people be upset.
Let them misunderstand you.
Let them criticize and judge. 💥Their opinions are reflections of their own perceptions, not a measure of your worth.

YOU do not need to explain yourself to those who are committed to misunderstanding you.

YOU are not responsible for how others choose to see you or how they react to your truth.

Follow your dreams.
Make your mistakes and learn from them.
Celebrate the little wins in life and walk proudly in your own shoes.

GROWTH begins when your purpose becomes louder than your FEAR of being judged.

To the thoughtful soul reading this…
May you find confidence beyond the opinions of others and your choices be guided by conviction rather than FEAR.
May your life be filled with courage, authenticity, and the freedom to be YOU.

Namaste ❣️
Vivienne

What will come, will come!

A thought is just that - a thought, however YOU make it more so with your FEAR!

Let go and just accept what is coming....
No " what if's" or "Should I"
Just acceptance❣️