Coherence Group

How long does it take you to make decisions? What about your team? Your family?

If you find yourself agonising over them - your indecision is often caused by applying flawed reasoning to :

1. how to decide
2. what successful outcome you want
3. over reliance on others
4. desire to please, be seen as perfect or fit in
5. dislike of tension or conflict
6. habit of taking the easy path
7 too much hope and not enough action in your life

a lot of this behaviour is developed in very early life - and then embedded through your reactions and choices as life throws it's situations at you. Sometimes as though it is testing our ability to make good choices.

Personally, I struggled with a lot of these - despite seeming to be achieving by most standards. But the desire to "know my purpose" and "have a goal to achieve" to feel good about myself was a dead give away.

I was living my life on someone else's terms.

The pathway to making stronger choices that propel growth and get you out of indecision is clear.

Apply a higher standard
Be clear to yourself who you are ...really
Express yourself clearly so the world sees you
Live your values ferociously, tenaciously and without fear
Take action everyday to bring your life to centre around growth

none of these things are easy ... until you make them your daily habit - and then they flow. It becomes the way you do things. Applying a values based lens propels you past the blocks and back into clarity.

if you need help to define those things, drop me a note in the DM's

Facing a dilemma ? Here is the answer you have been looking for.