Consentability

Excellent advice from Alita at Bad Dates Of Melbourne as usual 🙏🏽❤️

💅 Just a friendly BDOM reminder: you're not obliged to stay on a date if you want to leave.

❤ You're allowed to leave a date even if they've just bought you a drink.

❤ You're allowed to leave a date even if they've apologised for a rude remark.

❤ You're allowed to leave a date even if they've driven a long way to meet you.

❤ You're allowed to leave a date even if they've paid for a hotel room.

❤ You're allowed to leave a date if you aren't having a good time.

❤ You're allowed to leave a date if they're really late.

❤ You're allowed to leave a date even if the other person will be upset you're leaving.

You're allowed to leave a date at any time. I like to think I am someone with good manners, but sometimes my spidey sense goes off and my gut tells me I gotta go - and in those situations, I make my excuses and leave. Having good manners does not mean you have to sit through a bad date. x Ali