Revising Islam

There is no room for secrets in marriage. Secrets corrode trust. Secrets destroy marriages. Every secret that you keep from your spouse, regardless of how small it is, is taking away from your marriage. Remember nothing stays secret. The same Devil who assures you that you’ll never be caught is the same Devil who will blow the whistle on you. Your spouse shouldn't have to become a detective, investigator or secret service agent. Give your spouse open access to your entire personal life. Don’t take your spouse’s trust for granted. Successful marriages are built on trust. It takes years to build trust; it takes a single secret to destroy it; & it takes sincere apologies & a whole lifetime of proven honest living to restore & repair it.

Respect your spouse & honor your commitment. Live an honorable, open & honest life.

The Best Husband ...

1. Shows good character and good manners towards his wife.

2. Doesn’t slack when it comes to the rights of his wife.

3. Does not check out any other woman other than his wife.

4. Learns and practises Islam and teaches his wife too.

5. Is there for his wife during times of distress.

6. Keeps his cool even when his wife hurts his feelings.

7. Appreciates his wife and forgives small mistakes.

8. Helps out with household chores and doesn’t just leave them to the wife.

9. Does his best to raise their children in an Islamic way.