Doula Davy

What helped you get through labor, birth and the immediate postpartum period?

The things that helped me the most were

✨ Meditation

✨ A dim, quiet and calm space

✨ Straddling the toilet

✨ My husband holding a fan over me for 3 hours straight! 🤣

Did your OB/midwife go over all of this with you?
Did your provider encourage you to research this and other routine procedures and medications done/given at birth?

ALL providers should be required to give ALL information to you so that you can make informed decisions.
Unfortunately, they do not have to share all the information.
This is why it is so important to thoroughly interview your provider before hiring them.

Do you know why eye ointment (Erythromycin) is given at birth?

It is offered because there were babies being born with ophthalmia neonatorum, which is a strain of pink eye caused by ghonnorea and chlamydia.
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Pink eye.... we’re pre-treating every single baby for pink eye.
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If mom doesn't have either of those, the ointment is basically pointless and nonbeneficial with potential of dangerous side effects...
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Most expecting mothers are tested at their first prenatal appointment for either of the aforementioned STDs.
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Did you know they also give it to C-Section babies that NEVER come in contact with their mother’s potential STD?
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🛑 Risks of erythromycin: eye irritation, CLOGGED TEAR DUCTS, prevents oxygen from getting to baby's eyes, JAUNDICE, chemical conjunctivitis (pink eye), blurred vision that may interfere with bonding (super important in the first moments/hours), contributes to the development of antibiotic-resistant bacteria, has a 20% failure rate, possibility of allergic reaction.
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🛑 Risks of refusing erythromycin: should mother have an undetected STD then baby has possibility of developing TREATABLE pink eye.
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Giving the ointment routinely contributes to over-prescription of antibiotics. This "just in case" medical routine is a reason why we have so many strains of resistant bacteria.
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Many new moms have been told at the hospital that their child could go blind if they didn’t give their new baby the ointment.



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Did you feel your water break? 💧
How long after did you go into labor?
What was your experience?

~ My experience ~

Before learning a lot of the things I know now, I ended up deciding to go in and get induced at 42 weeks after I had been planning for a home birth. Aspen wasn't moving much and I was concerned.
After about 15 hours of laboring I had a midwife break my water for me and nothing came out! 😮
Sometimes babies head is so low and sitting right on top of your cervix that their head basically acts like a plug!
I only felt a small gush when I pushed him out!