Tend Task

The list isn't the problem. The list is proof of the problem.

Sending him tasks keeps you as the project manager. What actually changes this is shared awareness — not shared chores.

What happens when you send a list?

The patterns you establish during wedding planning—who carries the mental load, who makes sacrifices, who does the invisible work—become your blueprint for marriage.

The Alchemy Intensive breaks that cycle before it starts.

4 days at the Ritz-Carlton Bacara where 10 ambitious couples build the systems and skills that let both partners thrive. Not "fair" division of labor. Not "helping out." True partnership equality.

Plus custom ceremony design that reflects your actual values (not what the wedding industry expects).

This isn't another weekend workshop. This is a complete reimagining of how you'll build your life together.

March 27-30, 2026. Only 10 spots.
Early enrollment ends February 14th.