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About a year ago, I was in a place of profound despair. Overwhelmed by pain and under the influence of alcohol, I stood on a building ready to end my life. The rage inside me was so intense that I felt completely numb—I didn’t care what happened next. But something inside me shifted, and I didn’t jump.
Looking back now, I can smile with deep gratitude and relief. I often wonder where I would be today—or if I would even be here at all—had I gone through with it.
Mental health struggles are very real, and it is essential that we recognize this truth. Never give up on the people in your life who are hurting. Listen to them. Talk with them. Love them without judgment. Be kind. Be humble.
Life can be heartbreakingly short, and events we never imagined possible can unfold in an instant.
On May 29, we lost someone truly special who made that same tragic choice—this time from 26 stories high. He is no longer with us, leaving behind his amazing big sister, a brother, and his loving family. Watching a family navigate this kind of loss is utterly heartbreaking.
What makes his absence even more poignant is the extraordinary person he was. He possessed an impressive range of skills and dedicated his life to helping others through legal consulting, crisis counseling, community mental health, su***de prevention, human rights advocacy, and so much more. He was recognized with numerous honors, including Lawyer of the Year from the Dallas Volunteer Attorney Program and the Ann Watson Barber Outstanding Service Award from the University of Chicago Law School. He was a mentor, a leader, a public speaker, and a force for good.
Yet even someone with such accomplishments and a deep passion for supporting others carried his own hidden pain.
The point I want to make—again and again—is that life is far too short. The unexpected can happen to anyone, at any time. So please, be humble and kind. If someone reaches out to you, reach back. Don’t ignore their text or their call. It could be the last one they ever send. Any day could be someone’s final day. Sometimes, all a person needs is a few kind words or simply someone willing to listen.
In the end, these are the facts of life we cannot afford to ignore: Connection is a lifeline. Presence matters. A single moment of genuine attention or a small act of kindness can ripple further than we will ever know. Don’t wait for the “right time.” Show up for the people around you while you still can—because tomorrow is never guaranteed, and the cost of silence can be unbearable.
If you or someone you know is struggling, help is available 24/7. Reach out to the 988 Su***de & Crisis Lifeline or visit 988lifeline You are not alone

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