That Day Collective

check-in ☀️

I don’t post every morning — and that’s okay.

I’m human, not perfect. But when I can, I start my day with YouTube or classical music. It helps my brain recognize: we’re safe, we’re waking up, it’s time to move into our routine. When I skip it, I feel off-kilter — because habits matter.

This morning I was listening to Simon Sinek, who I’ve followed for years. His leadership talks always ground me.

Today he shared a story about a Styrofoam cup — and how leadership was never meant for the shiny things, the perks, the titles, or business class seats. Those things belong to the position, not the person.

I’ve lived on both sides of that.

As a soldier, a veteran, someone with a title — I’ve been given doors held open, free coffee, special treatment. I’ve also felt what it’s like when the uniform comes off and the title fades.

What stays is who you are when no one owes you anything.

Leadership, to me, is building a foundation — not a pedestal. It’s showing up imperfectly. Asking for help. Bringing people along instead of stepping on them. If you’re in my circle, your success is my success.

As I train for this half marathon, I’m also navigating pain flares and limited hand use, which means posting consistently isn’t always realistic.

I’ve still been moving:

• Outside running twice
• Gym once
• New yoga mat, hand massager, and tools to keep going

Consistency with new habits takes time. And I’m giving myself the kindness to remember: I don’t owe the world perfection.

I owe myself honesty and sustainability.

This is me checking in — not polished, just present. 🤍

Grateful for the people and places that help hold me up on this journey 🤍

Race : Love Run Philadelphia Half Marathon
Gym : Spartan Gym Strength & Conditioning
Acupuncture: Greater Philly Community Acupuncture
Yoga: Jeannie Rowan-Boyle
Hait Stylist: Caitlyn Gasiewski
Life Coach: Nichole Bullock Birmingham
My mission: That Day Community Corner
Podcast:Mel Robbins
Leadership: Simon Sinek
CPA: RLS Accounting Services, LLC
Board Member: Bensalem Business Association
Board Member Online: Armed Services Arts Partnership - ASAP

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