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May Series: The Biggest Financial Decisions Couples Make in Their 40s & 50s | Pillar 2 — Balance Sheet Optimization

Nobody tells you that the college decision has a ten-year tail.

Year 0: A 17-year-old applies to colleges. The family compares acceptance letters — not debt-to-income projections. The most prestigious option wins.

Year 4: Graduation. Average student debt: $37,000+. The underemployment rate for new graduates is 42.5% — the highest rate since 2020.

Year 5: The child moves home or needs help with rent. It's temporary. Everyone agrees it's temporary.

Year 7: The parents have spent an estimated $38,000+ in post-graduation support.

Year 10+: Only 44% of adults ages 25–29 are completely financially independent of their parents. The temporary has become structural.

None of this is inevitable. But it is predictable — once you understand that the college decision is not a four-year commitment. It is a decision with a potential ten-to-fifteen-year tail, and that tail lands squarely in the middle of the years that matter most for retirement savings.

This is exactly what Miller Wealth Management's One Process is designed to address. Through Pillar 2 — Balance Sheet Optimization — we model the full downstream cost of major financial decisions before they're made, not after they've already compounded.

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