Therapy Mode

Part 2 from yesterday:

🪜Three Levels of Personal Growth
Let’s look at three ways The Two Versions of You can be expressed.

Level 1 :
This person is either immensely overwhelmed and disempowered or blissfully ignorant. At Level 1, the Actual and Aspirational Selves happen by accident.
This person’s patterns are created unconsciously, and their vision of their aspirational self is created unconsciously. They haven’t chosen what they want to create. This person doesn’t know what they want and may be unaware they can have wants.

Level 2:
This person has opened their eyes to the possibility of change. They recognize that their Actual Self has been largely determined by subconscious programming but they recognize that change is possible.
They are starting to formulate the vision of their Aspirational Self. However, there is a sense of stuckness and how-do-I-get-from-here-to-there-ness 😫.
There’s some change here, but it’s sludgy. Getting to the Aspirational Self seems like an arduous journey, and they want the process to speed up.

Level 3:
This person is empowered. Life is enriching, satisfying, and fulfilling. They have spent time crafting the vision of their Aspirational Self and have taken focused, efficient, bold, and aligned action to bridge the gap between their Actual Self and their Aspirational Self.
This person unconditionally loves themselves and every moment of life because they are clear on their Aspirational Self and know how to create that version of themselves. This person has dramatically released the urge to control and speed up time.

Here are three points I want you to take from this:
No one is just one level 100% of the time. Sometimes, you may be on all three levels in a given moment. What matters is where you predominantly spend your time.

Whether accidental or on purpose, both your Actual and Aspirational Selves are being created every moment. Life sucks when it happens by accident. Life is amazing when it happens on purpose.

Most people get stuck at Level 2. Why is that?