Coach Delisa

✨ You weren’t designed to stay where you are. ✨
🌿 God is disrupting your comfort. 🌿

For a long time, my vision was simply to get in front of people and change lives by telling my story.

🌼 I was told, “Just get in front of audiences.”
So I did. ✨

I went to networking events.
I told my story.
I wrote a book. 📖✨
I hosted author talks.
I spoke again and again. 🎤

Some women were touched. A few would quietly say, “You just told my story.” 💛
Most listened politely. Then the event would end, and everyone would move on, networking with each other.

No one talked about working together.
And I was confused. 🤍

Not about my heart.
But about how telling my story was supposed to turn into real change for someone else, and something sustainable for me. Because frankly, I wanted to make a difference in the world. I wasn’t.

✨ What I didn’t understand yet was this:
The stirring I felt wasn’t about speaking more. It was about listening deeper. 🌿

🌼🌿 And it wasn't about listening to business and marketing coaches. It was about finding a coach that would ask questions and listen to my heart.

Women in midlife don’t lack wisdom.
They lack permission. 🔑

🌿 They feel something stirring, a pull they can’t explain, but they don’t know what it’s asking of them. They know they want to use their lived experience, their hard-earned wisdom, but they have no idea what that’s supposed to look like. And taking a leap of faith feels impossible when you don’t even know where you’re landing.

That’s where my work lives now.
And honestly, it’s my superpower. ✨🔥

🙏 I ask questions. I listen closely. I sit with the uncertainty long enough for discernment to rise. I make room for God to work, and I let Him. ✨

🌼 When it clicks, when her words finally sound like her, when the plan matches who she actually is instead of who she thinks she should be, something sacred happens. ✨

It’s divine alignment. It changes lives and it is stunning. And then we go to work... ✨🌿



Photo by @ Kendra Sikes

A new article is now live on LinkedIn about what Coach Delisa is known for and the women she serves.

This piece is for Christian women in midlife who feel a quiet restlessness and are ready for clarity, confidence, and direction.

For some, it also speaks to turning wisdom into income and impact without hype or pressure.

What Coach Delisa Is Known For Coach Delisa is known for guiding Christian women in midlife who feel a quiet restlessness to gain clarity, confidence, and direction. She helps them design a life of meaning and legacy, and for those who choose it, turn their wisdom into income and impact, without hype or pressure.

🌧️💭 I’ve been thinking a lot about how some people live so tightly wrapped around their disappointment that even kindness feels unwelcomed.

As I sat on my back porch this morning, basking in the Texas sun that feels more like early fall than late December, I started reflecting on this mindset I’ve come to recognize, one that feels familiar. ☀️🍂

Recently, someone came into my life, and I found myself paying attention. Listening. Noticing how every story landed in the same place. Everything felt unfair. Everyone else was at fault. Any attempt at encouragement was quietly rejected, almost as if hope itself felt intrusive.

🪑🌿 There was a time in my own life when I lived with my head down like that. Resentment close by. Convinced that my circumstances and the people around me were the reason I felt so unhappy.

I wanted peace. I wanted joy. I followed the usual personal development guidance and told myself tomorrow would be different.
Tomorrow rarely lasted. ⏳⏳

What eventually shifted things for me wasn’t motivation or another perspective.
It was an honest realization I couldn’t avoid.

🤔💭 If everyone around me was responsible for my unhappiness, then what did they all have in common?
“Me.”

I didn’t know exactly how to change yet, but I knew something had to give. I found my way into honest spaces, the kind where people stopped pretending and started telling the truth. I reached for a community that I felt would accept me. I reached for support groups. 🤍🤍

Misery can feel safer than hope. It’s familiar. Predictable. It doesn’t demand anything new. Hope does. It requires a willingness to see differently. It requires work. Hard work. A reworking from the inside. And that’s scary.

Not because people don’t want better, but because when someone is worn down, empty, and already struggling just to get through the day, the idea of doing more work can feel impossible. In that state, it makes sense why people turn away from hope and retreat to what’s familiar. It asks less of them, even when it hurts.

🌅✨ What became clear to me this morning is this:
It isn’t my role to persuade someone into a new way of seeing, no matter how much my heartstrings pull.

I can care without carrying what isn’t mine. 🌿🌿
Letting that go didn’t feel like walking away.
It felt like release. It felt like self-care, something I’ve learned must be a priority in my life.

If you’re walking beside someone whose negativity feels constant and unwavering, this matters.
You are not unkind for choosing boundaries. 🛑🛑

🙏✨ Sometimes, the most faithful thing we can do is stop trying to manage what was never ours to carry.

Growth begins when a person chooses to lift their own eyes.
Until then, your role is not to rescue. 🌱🌱

Sometimes all God asks of us is to pray for them.
Prayer becomes the place where we release control, place people back into God’s care, and allow peace to return where striving once lived. ✨✨

🌼🌿



📸 Photo by Kendra Sikes