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Something I’m still learning…even though it goes against everything I saw growing up…

Our children aren’t here to serve us. They’re not here to keep us company when we’re lonely.

They’re not here to fix what went wrong in our lives or for us to relive our childhoods through them.

They’re here to grow.
To learn.
To become good humans.
To leave this world better than they found it.
To love deeply.
To spread joy.
To live out their dreams—fully, freely, and unapologetically.

Our job?

It’s not to mold them into mini versions of us.

It’s to teach them how to thrive, not hide. To make space for who they’re becoming.

To support them as they find their voice, their gifts, their path and learn how to navigate the harsh realities of this world.

Because one day… we won’t be here.

And what we leave behind shouldn’t be control or guilt.

It should be freedom. Peace. And the tools to keep becoming.

We’re not raising our keepers. We’re raising whole humans with paths of their own.