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Grateful for this BIG NEWS tomorrow 😆🌸
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We should show gratitude at every chance we get, and I’m overly grateful for my tribe 🌸

As y’all know, I turned 40 this year and threw a party with ✨the works✨ — DJs, catered food, venue, décor, big light-up pink 40, custom dessert table… err’thing!

Pero, listen… big birthday parties are for the birds because the stress had me dissociating the entire time 😭 I barely remembered any of it! The only reason I have memories at all is because of the gorgeous photos captured 🥹 I cried for days afterward. It was such a milestone year, a celebration I poured so much effort (and money 😩) into, and yet I barely remember being present for it.

So as my will would have it, I said: “Who tf said I can’t throw my birthday party again?” And that’s exactly what I did 🙃

I remixed my 40th cypher, estilo Friendsgiving, and my tribe brought the sustenance, the sazón, and the support 🥹

Shoutout to momma Pinq for her delicious cooking, all my friends and their signature dishes/contributions to the spread, DJ for the soundtrack that held the night together, and to for helping me pivot again after another venue cancellation (yes… the venues cancelled at BOTH my birthday parties 😭). They truly came through in the clutch with a gorgeous space and the kindest, most helpful bartenders 💐

As I continue to ground myself in gratitude (and not just on one genocidal holiday a year 😒), I cannot speak more highly of my friends, who became my family, who became my foundation. Thank you for always reminding me that I don’t have to do this life thing alone 🩷

BIG NEWS COMING THIS FRIDAY NOVEMBER 28TH! 🫣