Kerry McAvoy, PhD
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Can two people from the same family experience the same trauma and see it completely differently?
When an adult child asks for an apology from the parent who was also a victim, it can feel like a second heartbreak.
Let’s talk about "multiple truths" and how we move forward when our children see our past through a different lens.
04/16/2026
You don’t have to burn yourself to shine
Ever felt the pressure to give everything for others? Remember, your well-being matters too. You are not required to set yourself on fire to keep other people warm. Prioritizing your mental and emotional health is not selfish; it’s essential. 🔥✨ Let's embrace balance and support each other without sacrificing ourselves.
Are you starting to wonder if the person who always seems to be suffering is actually the one causing your suffering?
That confusion is by design. Covert narcissists don't demand your admiration — they demand your pity. And if you're empathetic, patient, and self-reflective, you were never just chosen — you were targeted.
IN THIS LIVE STREAM:
Learn:
1. Why the covert narcissist is so much harder to spot
2. How "entitled vulnerability" hooks your empathy
3. Why their suffering isn't a cry for help
4. How to stop their toxic dynamic cycle
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IF YOU ARE A RISK of immediate danger or abuse, please get in touch with the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233.
DISCLAIMER: All content and information on this website is for informational and educational purposes only and does not constitute mental health advice. Although I strive to provide accurate general information, the information presented here is not a substitute for professional advice, and you should not rely solely on this information. Always consult a professional in the area for your particular needs and circumstances before making any professional, legal, medical, financial, or tax-related decisions.
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Take my FREE “Toxic or Troubled?” survey to discover your relationship type and get instant access to a complete, private mini-course—educational overviews, reflective questions, grounding techniques, and new strategies tailored to your situation.
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ABOUT DR. KERRY McAVOY
Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D., is a psychologist, author, and expert on cultivating healthy relationships, deconstructing narcissism, and understanding complex trauma. A survivor herself, her memoir “Love You More” offers an uncensored glimpse into the dynamics of narcissistic abuse.
Going into court against a narcissistic ex can feel like a battle for the truth, but these five deep psychological desires might actually be sabotaging your case.
Understanding these desires is the first step to staying focused on what the legal system can actually provide.
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