Connection Catalyst

Why do people pleasers and narcissists attract each other so much? 👀

Because deep down…
both often carry the SAME wound.

Feeling unworthy of love.

One person tries to heal it by controlling.
The other tries to heal it by sacrificing themselves.

The narcissist says:
“I need power, validation and control to feel safe.”

The people pleaser says:
“If I overgive and abandon myself, maybe I’ll finally be loved.”

Different strategies.
Same pain.

That’s why these relationships can feel SO addictive ⚠️

One person chases.
One person withdraws.
One person overgives.
One person takes.

And both are trying to fill an emotional void from childhood.

In this clip, Karolina shares:

* why people pleasers attract narcissists
* why trauma creates relationship chemistry
* why overgiving destroys self-worth
* why unhealthy love can feel familiar

🔥 One hard truth?

Many people don’t choose relationships from love…
they choose from unresolved wounds.

If you’re an entrepreneur, leader or creator who keeps repeating painful relationship patterns despite success in business - this episode will hit deeply 🧠

🎧 Listen to Episode 19 of The Connection Catalyst Podcast - now streaming on YouTube, Spotify & Apple Podcasts! LINK IN BIO.

With love,
Karolina, The Connection Catalyst 🖤