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❌You should never speak ill about your wife to anyone then expect your wife to respect you.‼️

The moment you speak something negative about your wife to another woman, you're opening the door for an affair.

You're showing the gap in your marriage, and that woman can easily step in and fill it.

You say you don't feel appreciated by your wife? This woman now specialises in praising you.

You say your wife is always complaining? This woman becomes a specialist at complimenting you.

You say your wife gives you no peace? Voila! You now have a new comforter, always looking at you with tender eyes.

You may think you found a shoulder to lean on when you just opened a door to the abyss.

Starting affairs is easy, but stopping them is messy because the new person has their own expectations, and they don't always agree to be used and dropped like a tissue paper.

You may be thinking about the stress you're experiencing in your marriage, while they're thinking about the resource you are to their survival.

Most people who ruin their marriages don't intend to in the beginning. They just opened a small door without knowing how many evils would enter their lives through it.

It's always better to handle your issues with your spouse themselves or go to a therapist. Venting to a colleague at work or a female friend is a recipe for disaster.

I want to be Loved in a way I won't hurt
and I wont to be worry

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In a relationship there are always 3 phases or stages.

📌The first is where everything is happiness, everything is nice words, there are no problems and everything is going well.

📌The second is when you start to know the imperfections of the person, meaningless fights start, (this stage is the most difficult since they are not always willing to fix things and that is why they quit).

📌And finally, the third is the most beautiful; when you really fall in love, and you see their perfect imperfections, when they know how to fix problems without the need for yelling or hurtful words, when you really learn to love.