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BEING ENABLED
(...your vital boost for a successful life..*

✍🏼Life is a race arena as well a battlefield...Everyone is running for its success knowing it has failing points(its loop holes).

Many actually did prepared so well before racing but on the process were distracted and were captured by life loop holes... Many run the race without taking words from the master of race and are left with disappointment. Many are anxiously reliant on their ability, leaving out the necessities of a successful life race.

Many who were enabled but failed caution and were disabled by life forces, and could not continue in the race.

But the few who took caution; *connecting their humanity to divinity* were divinely enabled for a successful life race.

all what is being preached here is *ENABLEMENT!!!* It is something so needed if you must run a better and a successful race.

A person who is *enabled* can *go far in doing exploits for God* just as the Apostles were and did.

A person who is *enabled* will *have a working relationship and a blissful marriage.*

A person who is divinely *enabled* will *break protocols and barriers.*

A person who is *enabled* will *command fire* like the Prophet Elijah of those days.

A person who is *enabled* will *revive dry bones* like Prophet Ezekiel of those days.

A person who is *enabled* will *heal a lame beggar* just as Peter did in 📖Acts 3.

A person who is *enable* will *turn water to wine, heal the sick raise the dead and do all sort of thrilling miracles* just as our Lord JESUS did!

Jesus said; “greater things shall ye do than I did” *but not until you are enabled.*

Paul said “I can do all things through christ that strengthens(enables) me”. 📖Phil 4:13.

It is stated that financial prosperity shall be ours... *but not until we are enabled;* for it is God who gives power(enablement) to make wealth.

the difference between a man who succeeded and a man who failed is in their *ENABLEMENT.

When you are enabled; you are empowered, when you are enabled; you are enlightened, when you are enabled; you are equipped, when you are enabled; you are encapacitated, when you are enabled; you are recharged..
*ENABLEMENT is what makes the difference!!!*

There is absolutely nothing you can do outside your enablement.....
Your *ENABLEMENT* is your *CAPACITY.*
Your *CAPACITY* is your *SUCCESS ESTATE.*

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DEALING WITH YOUR EXCESSES

There is a saying that "we all have issues that we need to deal with". No matter how much of a well- rounded person you think you are, you should admit to the fact that nobody is perfect and there is a particular part of your personality who probably looks weird or is annoying to others.

However, these little annoying habits that you cannot seem to get rid of is what makes your EXCESSES Which we also tame as flaws.

The first thing we should do when dealing with your flaws is to accept it as part of who you are. To have a deeper understanding of what flaws are all about, here is a brief look into its two main types;

First, there Is minor flaws which includes a little quirk like habitual lateness, easily irritable, boiling temper, etc.

Second, there are major flaws like addition, gambling, alcoholism, prostitution, etc.

STEPS ON HOW TO DEAL WITH YOUR EXCESSES

* LOVE IT BEFORE YOU IMPROVE IT: Accept the state that you are in before you try making radical changes. Hence, having a comprehensive image will help you take more balanced view of yourself.

* REFRAME YOUR THOUGHTS: Get ideas from family and friends about your character. sometimes, others see the good sides of it in us that we dont see. Although positive reframing will not change these qualities, but it can give you a healthy change in a perspective that will help you accept yourself.

* LIST OUT YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENT: List out the good things in you as well as the things about yourself that you wish to change. If possible, Try to be specific. Look at yourself if any of the strengths listed are connected to the qualities You view as flaws. More over, some characteristics are sometimes a good thing, but sometimes a bad thing that is not a flaw. It is just something that you have to work on to know when to use it, and when you have to approach things a different ways.

* THINK ABOUT PAST EXPERIENCES: Ask yourself how you got your flaws, are they familial? biological? when do they happen? if you say things you later regret?. ask yourself if it's an act you learned from your family or if it's just your reactions to awkward situations. The more you can understand these past behaviors the more you reduce your excesses on them.

* AVIOD CRITICISM: Avoid criticizing your self over your flaws, instead work on your forgiveness. As much as we might like to, we cannot change the past. Ruminating on past mistakes, whether they are as a result of a decision you made or because you behaved a certain way. All you do is, acknowledge the mistake and try to learn, and grow from it.

* LEARN TO ASK FOR HELP: if it is above your handling capacity, It is better you learn how to talk about your feelings concerning your flaws to people who you feel can help.

All In all, you can consciously take necessary steps to change or accept it as part of who you are. No matter which of these two options you choose, the important thing is for you to learn how to deal with your excesses as part of who you are as a person.