Fitmike

TOO MUCH ACCESS CREATES DISRESPECT
SAME AS….
TOO MUCH FAMILIARITY BREEDS CONTEMPT

Familiarity isn’t always a good thing. When people know they can reach you anytime, get your attention anytime, and have your energy without earning it, they slowly start taking it for granted.

It’s not always intentional, but it happens. Value drops when access is unlimited. Yeah, it sounds harsh, but giving too much of yourself without boundaries invites careless behavior. Time, attention, presence; these aren’t free commodities to hand out like it’s nothing. The moment everything becomes easily available, respect quietly fades.

Pulling back isn’t ego, it’s self-respect. Create space, protect your energy, and let people feel your absence a little. Because what’s rare gets respected, and what’s always there starts to feel like nothing.

However, at some point, you will have to disappoint others to live a life that’s honest to you. Pleasing people and displeasing yourself can and will drain you mentally, physically, and spiritually…

You have every right to set boundaries and choose your peace. You can disappoint people and still be a good person.

People would call you all sorta names such as; an over-thinker, being too emotional, being childish or temperamental etc…
They call you these names once they know that you are fully aware of who they are and who they have been and also when they know they no longer have easy access to you.

They can even go as far as tarnishing your reputation despite your being quiet about the whole thing but nothing beats it all as being SILENCED about it all🎧