Socute Benjamin Relationship Tips

Why should the woman you marry be less than your age? Because:

1. Men have a tendency to dominate & treat younger people as children, and when this equation matches in marriage, it works well since treating a woman like a child is the best way to keep her happy.

2. The woman younger than you is definitely a newbie in world issues, therefore she needs someone to put her firm trust in and blindly follow to go through it. Absolute surrender.

3. Younger women have little to no séxual experience, allowing you to command and follow them, resulting in a greater experience for both. Because less experience translates into less comparison and therefore less troubles.

4. Younger women see older men as teachers of life, making it simpler for them to surrender and obey your directions, resulting in greater peace and fewer fights.

5. Younger women are considerably better at obtaining permission rather than imposing their own nonsensical beliefs.

6. Younger women are like clay; you may shape them according to your family, house, and other circumstances, resulting in a pleasant existence rather than a conflict of viewpoints.

7. The younger a woman is, the more she is inclined toward feminine energy, which makes it easier for her to take on her tasks and raise good children, as well as great house management.

JAY-Z understand this a long time ago.

EVERY TIME YOU SLEEP WITH A WOMAN, YOU TRANSFER POWER — WHO'S WINNING?

A Brutal Post About How Careless S*x Is Weakening Men More Than They Realize

Most men don’t understand this…

S*x is not just physical.
It’s transactional.
It’s spiritual.
It’s energetic.

Every time you have s*x, especially as a man —
Something leaves you.

You’re either building your strength or draining it.
You’re either transferring power, or receiving poison.

Let’s break it down:

1. S*x Is Energy Exchange — Not Just Pleasure

When you climax as a man, you don’t just release semen —
You release life force.

The same drive that builds empires, creates inventions, and conquers nations —
You’re releasing it into random women you don’t even respect.

And you wonder why you feel tired, foggy, unmotivated…
Check your body count.

2. Not Every Woman Deserves Access to Your Power

Some women carry peace.
Some carry confusion.
Some carry grace.
Others carry destruction.

But when you’re lust-driven, you’ll sleep with anything in a skirt —
And wonder why your life is going backward.

S*x doesn’t just feel good. It plants seeds.

You might be planting vision into the wrong soil.

3. Women Receive — Men Release

It’s biological.
She gets filled.
You get emptied.

That’s not just about s***m — it’s about power.

The more careless you are with your s*xual energy,
The weaker your focus, your discipline, and your drive becomes.

You’re draining yourself for free… and calling it “enjoyment.”

4. S*xual Discipline Is Masculine Strength

Any man can chase women.
But a real man controls himself.

While others are busy chasing s*x,
You’re chasing wealth, purpose, legacy, and influence.

That’s how kings think.

Your d*ck is not a compass — stop letting it lead your life.

5. You Are Becoming the Women You Sleep With

Yes. That’s real.

You’re exchanging spirits, mindsets, and even emotional baggage.

You may think it’s just a quickie,
But you don’t know what demons she’s carrying.

Now you’re battling depression, laziness, addiction…
And it all started the night you “just wanted to relax.”

6. You Can’t Be Focused and S*x-Obsessed

S*x on the brain? Vision will suffer.
Always in a woman’s DMs? Bank account will suffer.
Too many women in rotation? Your name, health, and peace will suffer.

Your greatest distractions will often come with curves.
And if you’re not smart, you’ll trade your future for thighs.

7. Power Leaks in Pleasure

Every time you finish inside the wrong woman,
You finish a part of your ambition.

And guess what?
You’re empowering her… and disempowering yourself.

She gets free resources.
You get delayed dreams.

She gets emotional attachment.
You get emotional confusion.

You’re transferring power — but you’re not getting any back.

8. The Strongest Men Aren’t the Most S*xually Active — They’re the Most Disciplined

Do you know what turns a man into a king?
Not money. Not women.
Control.

When you can master your urges,
You can master your life.

If your p***s controls you,
You are not a man — you are a slave with WiFi.

9. Stop Empowering Women Who Do Nothing but Drain You

She has no plan.
No purpose.
No values.
Just vibes, makeup, and waist.

And you’re giving her all your energy?

You’re investing your masculine power into a human distraction.
And wondering why you're stagnant?

10. Before You Enter Her Body, Ask Yourself:

What am I entering into?
Is this going to elevate me or destroy me?

Am I giving my power to a queen — or a crisis?

Because every s*xual act is not just about pleasure —
It’s an agreement.

Some of you are in spiritual contracts you never signed in prayer —
You signed with your pants down.

BOTTOM LINE:

You’re a king.
Stop acting like a stray dog.

Preserve your energy.
Value your seed.
Respect your mission.

Because every time you have s*x —
You transfer power.

The question is: Who’s winning? You or her?
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WHY MODERN MARRIAGES ARE COLLAPSING:

Why are men refusing to get married these days?

Why are so many women who have it all do not have husbands even in their 40s?

These are not accidents.

These are as a result of REBELLION.

When women abandon their feminine nature, they abandon the very thing that makes marriage attractive.

Modern women are taught to act like men, compete with men, be equal to men and fight men.

Now, women are confused as to why men no longer want to marry them.

Men can't lead or protect women who see them as opponents and competitors.

Men are not afraid of marriage. They are worried about fighting their rebellious wives in their own homes every day.

Marriage is no longer seen as an act of love but as business by most women.

If you make millions of cash, buy me cars and solves all my financial worries before I can be submissive to a man; then that's not submission but extortion!!!

Submission is not earned. Submission is chosen. You choose to be submissive or not to be submissive.

If a woman wants to get everything from a man before respecting him, then that's stupid because no man can give you everything you want.

You can't have the benefits of marriage without the responsibilities. The responsibilities are submission, service, sacrifice and loyalty.

You can't build a home where one partner is committed while the other is entitled.

You can't see submission as slavery and expect a happy marriage.

Submission becomes her enemy and no man marries an enemy.

You can't build a future with a woman who hates orderliness.

A man's marriage is the most expensive investment he will ever make. So, he wants to be sure he is investing rightly.

Marriage with a rebellious woman is suicidal. No matter how much you put into it, it's destined to collapse.

Modern men would prefer to die in peace alone than to stay with rebellious wives.

Women claim to be proudly independent until it's time to pay the bills alone, raise the kids alone or die alone.

Their funerals are filled with regrets.

God did not design women to live and die alone. Independence was never the goal.

Women are fighting for relevance and no man fights for relevance in his own home.

In today's dating markets, too many women are not looking for love. They are looking for financial saviours.

Men have come to realise all these and that's why they are not getting married as they used to.

One day, my wife and I were chatting and having a drink. As she stood up to go to the kitchen, her drink spilled.

I laughed at her but also felt sorry for her. 😆

So, as an act of love, I decided to give her mine. But she rejected it and insisted that we share it instead of her taking it all.

I was just feeling like a husband trying to prove his love.

I asked her why she didn’t take it all, even though she wanted the drink so much, and she said:

"Love should not be about súfferíng. You don’t need to give me your all to prove that you love me.

Why would you give me everything and stay without anything? How then will you súrvíve?

If you’re willing to give me everything, then I should also be willing to give back."

I quickly sat down, listening as she schooled me about love. She continued:

"If I take everything and watch you starve, it means I don’t truly love you. The proof of my love should be that I reciprocate the gesture.

Now that you decided to give me your drink because mine spilled, I should also ensure that you don’t go without, so you should have a portion too."

At that moment, I realized that love isn’t about self-sacrifice to the point of súffering. Even if you’re willing to give everything, the person who loves you should also be able to protect and care for you.

A person who truly loves you won’t sit back and enjoy everything while watching you struggle.

If I have just ₦1,000 and I offer it to you, you shouldn’t take it all. Instead, you should take a portion and let me have some too.

You can’t claim to love someone and watch them súffer while you take everything.

Don’t sit back and let your partner do everything.

Be active in your relationship.

Truly, love is about mutual support.

THE REASON SO MANY YOUNG MEN ARE AFRAID OF GETTING MARRIED NOW is because their income is low and they are afraid of being disrespected, put down and insulted by their wife!

They are rather waiting for the time they have "enough" to meet "all her needs" and "win" her respect!

If you do that, two things may happen: 1. You may never get married 2. You may marry a woman who loves you for your money, nothing more!

Some highly successful business men in the the world confessed they had nothing, I mean nothing when they married their wives. Cosmas Maduka, owner of COSCHARIS, a multi billionaire luxurious car dealer said he was in poverty when he married his wife at 20! Mensa Otabil, a very successful preacher, founder, chancellor of a university and business man in Ghana, also said he had nothing! No plate, no spoon, no chair, no bed, no nothing! When he married his wife! Fela Durotoye said he had only a table and a chair! Ben Carson, the world celebrated Neuro surgion was still struggling in school when he met candy! The list goes on!

You will only have very serious problem in marriage if , you are lazy and have an entitlement mentality! If you believe your wife is the one to pay all your bills and rescue you for life then don't bother to marry please, marriage is not for you!

Some women have married such men hoping they will break into wealth after marriage but their dreams were shattered when the man refuse to dream, work hard, shatter limitations and walk into greatness!

If you marry a woman to impress her with your money, you don't have a wife, you have a contract! She is to supply you respect and submission while you supply her money! The day your money is over, so is your marriage!

Things happen! People lose their jobs, businesses may crash! What will she do when you no longer make money and desperately need her support? That is when you will know whether you married a wife or a disaster!

I hope this post is simple enough?