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I am a 24 year old lady and I am pregnant for 3 weeks and it is bothering me so much that I have stopped working, what brought me here is that we have broken up with my lover and we are not the same and I can see that she does not have love with me anymore and until now I have not told her that I am pregnant for her now in my heart. amenza from the way he broke my heart

The time came when I decided to start forgetting about her and up to now I am used to it, my fear is that when I tell her that I am pregnant she may pretend to be with me so that we can continue being together if she does not love me and I do not want to get hurt again and I do not need to abort this pregnancy because we all need a child, what should I do? "
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Good afternoon sir, please post for me and hide my identity.

In 2019 i was into relationship with one married man in my school area, we love each other so much and he provides for me with the little he has, everyone knows about our relationship in my house , in school and my neighbors, we re so close because his wife was in school in another state with their kid, she comes home when they have holiday, this makes things easy for us, i was the one cooking, washing his clothes, giving him s3x, some times he will sleep overnight at my place, everything was going on smoothly untill i was pregnant in 2021 we ab0rted it because of my education and my people will be di$$appointed in me.

When i came back from the h0spital i gave him what they rem0ved from my st0mach and he used it to vow that he will marry no matter what ,the bl0od stained his hand , we later threw the thing inside river. So along the line the wife called and started begging me to leave her husband alone, that she knows her husband is not a w0manizer that she knows her husband truly love her, i called the husband to let's end the relationship, he was m@d at me, telling me that he will never leave me ,he m*ust marry me as second wife

So since then 2022 i have been av0iding him, i stopped him from coming to my house, i do tell people we are not dating , since that time he has been b3gging not to br3ak his heart, i st0pped everything i was doing for him yet he refused to leave me alone, i now told him that i will call his wife to plead with him to let me be. He collected my neighbor’s phone number , if i do anything they will be telling him, he uses people to sp¥ on me just to make sure I'm not having s3x with anybody, since my 100l i don't have friends he does not allow me to go close to anyone which is really aff3cting me, i don't enjoy my school life because of him, he always check my phone untill i changed everything last 2 years, now last week he sent me a nvd£ picture of me while i was rubbing cream on my b0dy in my room n@k3d, that if i report him to his wife he will send my nvd£ to everywhere, my name will will be d3nted in school but i told him to go ahead… pls i want him to leave me alone, I'm tir3d, if I'm sleeping he will come and peep to be sure no one is with me inside the room , I'm tir3d pls my people help me, i don't want this man to wr3ck my l1fe. He said he will use ju*ju on me that i will regr£t everything I'm doing, i want to focus on my new relationship, i don't know how he get the information of my new boyfriend. Please give me your advice in comment section

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