Victor P

I have had to let some really good women go not because I never wanted to spend the rest of my life with them but because at this point I don't have a life.

3 of my exes are married and 2 of them are with children as I am speaking to you now, this is too tell you how much quality the women I date are.

I don't date bed to bed midfielders, I do relationships with women that are marriagable.

Women that no man who is READY TO MARRY will encounter and not go ahead to marry them.

The only reason why I am not married now is simply because I am not READY and sometimes when I try to explain this things to most women I have dated so that they can leave me and find a man thats ready, they don't want too.

I have had women who are ready to wait, it doesn't matter how long, they will wait but then I DON'T WANT THAT because anything can happen and I don't even trust myself, I don't want to keep someone daughter waiting for years only for me to end up breaking her heart when she needed me most.

The reasons of this post is to simply appeal to innocent good men out there, if you are dating a good woman and you know deep down that you don't trust yourself to marry her please let her go, don't keep her wasting her time.

Yes, she might not agree with you now, she will misunderstand you but sometimes the best way to prove you love a woman is by giving her the opportunity to meet someone more better than you.

At this point, I don't have a stable or stable source of income, I am just trying to find my feet, pressure with family and life itself is already weighing me down, I don't want to drag any woman into this kind of life and I don't want to keep them for piping only, they are too innocent to be used like that.

Please let her go even if she don't want it, stand on your ground unless you know you8 will surely marry her.

Be wise.