Solution To Love Problems

S*X IS A BLOOD COVENANT

Listen, brother.
S*x is not just pleasure. It is not “fun” or “casual.” It is a covenant — a transaction sealed in blood, with consequences that echo in your body, your spirit, and even your generations.

God designed s*x to be sacred. That’s why He placed blood at the very gate of a woman’s body. That blood is not an accident — it is a covenant marker. Break it, and you enter into a binding spiritual contract.

Here’s the brutal truth you need to hear:

1. S*x Is Never Just Physical
Every time you sleep with a woman, you tie your spirit to hers. You’re not just sharing a bed — you’re sharing destiny, baggage, and consequences.

2. The H***n Is Not Biology — It’s Covenant
That blood wasn’t random. It was placed as a token — a covenant. The man who breaks it seals a spiritual contract. That’s why first encounters leave permanent bonds that can’t be erased.

3. Casual S*x Makes You a Slave
Every woman you sleep with takes a piece of your strength. With every encounter outside of covenant, you lose virtue, focus, and destiny. That’s why many men can’t rise — their energy is scattered across beds that were never theirs.

4. You Inherit Spirits You Don’t See
Sleep with a harlot, you inherit her spirits. Sleep with a broken woman, you inherit her chaos. Sleep with another man’s wife, you inherit his curses. S*x is transfer — not just pleasure.

5. Broken Women = Broken Future
Many women carry the fragments of multiple covenants — men they were never meant to tie their souls to. When you join yourself to them, you inherit confusion, curses, and shattered destinies.

6. Your Bloodline Pays the Price
God said sin carries to the third and fourth generation. That one “harmless night” may cost your children battles you never won.

7. S*x Outside Marriage Is Self-Destruction
STIs, unplanned children, broken homes — that’s just the surface. The real destruction is invisible: scattered purpose, stolen focus, and destiny exchange.

8. The Devil Uses Women Without Cover
From the beginning, the enemy used a woman outside covenant as his weapon. Nothing has changed. Weak men still fall to unguarded temptation.

9. One Act Can Shatter Years
A single night of “fun” can bind you to battles you’ll fight for life. Your rise as a man depends on discipline — not appetite.

10. Purity Is Power
A man who guards his body guards his future. A man who respects covenant protects his destiny. Lose control, and you hand your life to the devil on a silver plate.

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FINAL WARNING:
S*x is not a game. It is blood. It is covenant. It is legacy. Stop scattering your life across women who were never yours. Guard yourself. Guard your seed. Guard your destiny.

A real man doesn’t chase pleasure — he builds legacy.
I COME IN PEACE ✌️ 😌 🙏

People who care about each other enjoy doing things for one another. They don’t consider it servitude.

8 MISTAKES MEN SHOULD NEVER MAKE WHEN DEALING WITH WOMEN

Listen up, men. The modern dating market is a battlefield — and most of you are walking into it blind. You confuse attention for interest and kindness for attraction. Then you wonder why you keep losing. The truth? The game has rules. Learn them or perish.

Here are 8 brutal mistakes you should NEVER make when it comes to women:

1️⃣ NEVER EAT A WOMAN’S PY.*
A man who does this is giving away his power. You think it’s intimacy — she sees submission. A woman should be the one showing her desire for you, not the other way around. Don’t worship her body; make her earn yours. The moment you start bowing for pleasure, you stop leading as a man.

2️⃣ NEVER SLEEP WITH ANOTHER MAN’S WIFE.
That’s not bravery — it’s stupidity. You’re signing your own death warrant for a temporary thrill. You risk your peace, your safety, your name, and maybe your life — for someone else’s property. There are countless women out there; don’t destroy your life chasing forbidden fruit. Be disciplined.

3️⃣ NEVER PROPOSE ON YOUR KNEES.
You kneel to God and your parents — not to a woman. Love doesn’t require submission. Stand tall. Propose with confidence, not desperation. A real man doesn’t beg for a “yes” — he offers partnership. If she needs a performance to say yes, she’s not the one.

4️⃣ NEVER CHASE HER — ATTRACT HER.
The more you chase, the less she values you. Desperation kills attraction faster than anything else. Focus on your mission, your fitness, your money, your peace. Build a life that commands respect — not one that depends on female validation. When you’re the prize, she’ll pursue you.

5️⃣ NEVER ASSUME A WOMAN CAN’T DESTROY YOU.
Ask Samson. Ask Adam. The wrong woman can bring down the strongest man. One wrong attachment can cost you your empire, your focus, and your future. Don’t underestimate emotional manipulation — it’s more dangerous than any bullet. Stay alert.

6️⃣ NEVER LEAD WITH YOUR WALLET.
When money is your strategy, you’ll only attract parasites. If you buy her attention, you’ll have to keep paying to keep her. Real women are drawn to purpose, not pockets. Don’t use your money to buy love; use your ambition to build legacy.

7️⃣ NEVER CONFUSE ATTENTION FOR AFFECTION.
Just because she laughs at your jokes or texts you daily doesn’t mean she wants you. Women know how to use attention as bait — especially when they see you starving for validation. Learn to read energy, not emojis.

8️⃣ NEVER PUT WOMEN ABOVE YOUR PURPOSE.
The moment you prioritize her over your mission, you lose both. Your purpose is your backbone — lose it, and you’ll crawl through life. Build yourself, master yourself, and watch women align naturally with your power.

FINAL WARNING:
Weak men chase pleasure; strong men chase purpose. Every mistake listed above costs you power, peace, or progress. Stay sharp. Stay focused. Women respect men who respect themselves first. Don’t trade your crown for temporary comfort.

WHY MEN ARE CALLED "GROOM”, AND THE WOMAN “THE BRIDE” ON WEDDING DAY?

Why is the newly wedded man called GROOM and the woman called BRIDE? A friend of mine got tired of his WIFE just about six months after wedding. He complained bitterly to me about her and told me that he has concluded to break up with her; he went on to say that he was sure that he made a mistake. I did not respond immediately because I knew I must tell him the right thing, so I went home. And that is what birth this message.

Many MEN have broken up with their WIVES because they end up not being the WIFE that they have dreamt of. But they have forgotten that on their wedding day was when the man was commissioned for the new task.

Nobody calls the woman WIFE on her wedding day but BRIDE, because it is the man that will GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. That is why the man is called ‘BRIDEGROOM or GROOM’ and the word grooming has to do with PATIENTLY NURTURING, TEACHING, TENDING and HELPING someone to become what he or she should be.

It is therefore believed that a MAN that takes a WOMAN to the ALTAR of MARRIAGE is matured enough to patiently GROOM his BRIDE to become the WIFE. The man is not supposed to just expect the BRIDE to automatically become the WIFE, she must be groomed.

It is clear that many men have unnecessary expectations when they were getting married, they want some magic to happen to their wives, they want them to become what they have had in mind about who they want their wives to be; not considering the fact that the woman does not know what is on your mind except you teach her.

Our expectations are often too unrealistic, because we don’t remember that change takes TIME and we can only expect something from someone that knows what we want.

So before you think of breaking up, have you groomed her? Have you given her TIME to understand you? Hope you realize that a turtle will never become a hawk? God often brings People that are opposites of each other together in MARRIAGE so that they can HELP EACH OTHER in their place of weaknesses. If your WIFE is weak where you are weak, then where will you get the strength that is needed? The problem with many of us is that we don’t accept People before attempting to change them. Of course, your wives are not from your backgrounds, so it will take TIME for them to adjust. Stop trying to change her, ACCEPT her, LOVE her, TEACH her and be PATIENT with her; that is what grooming is all about. She is going to be your WIFE but she is your BRIDE now, so GROOM her. Stop complaining about her, she may be a turtle and you a hawk, she cannot fly so be PATIENT with her. I don’t believe that your MARRIAGE can’t work, be PATIENT and allow GOD to HELP you.

May Almighty God continue to be with us, guide and protect us in all our affairs Amen!!! Wishing you the best Marital Life ever to all single Ladies,Bros and Married ones here.

You will have the marriage of your dreams. A marriage made in heaven.

Content creator NJ

HOW TO BE A ROMANTIC WIFE

1. Remember that romance is not the husband's responsibility alone

2. Compliment your husband when he is well-dressed and smells good

3. Touch your husband's thigh when he is driving or seated next to you when you want to tell him something

4. Flirt with him over the phone

5. Play with his fingers when you two are having pillow talks

6. Cuddle with him and place his head on your bosom when you two are in bed

7. Place your hand on his arm as a Queen who knows her position

8. Dress up for his visual stimulation, especially in the bedroom

9. Dance for him and tease him

10. Tell him all the passionate things you want to do to him

11. Praise his s*xual performance and the things he does that give you pleasure. Tell him how how he drives you crazy

12. Take him out on dates, don't always wait for him to plan things

13. Kiss him, not just on the lips but also his cheeks, his forehead, his fingers

14. Offer to serve him with a smile and take care of him

15. Call him special names "My King", "Darling", "Honey"

16. Be confident in being yourself, do great things as an individual. It excites him when he is proud of you

17. Talk highly about him in public, encourage him in private when he is down

18. Find out his favourite s*x position and do it to him often

19. Help him to put on and remove his clothes, his tie, his coat

20. Rally the children in appreciating him, make him feel valued at home regardless of his financial status

21. Buy him gifts that he will like

22. Prepare his favourite meal or ask him what he would like to eat

23. Tell him you love him. Men love to be affirmed too. Tell him also what you love about him

24. Ask him how his day has been. Show care

25. Make s*xual moves on him, don't just lay there waiting for him to do all the work

26. Pray for him to bless him, not because you think he is the devil or the problem in your marriage. Prayerful women are romantic

27. Attend to his needs without him asking such as making him a cup of tea/coffee when he is working

Just because you have spent years together doesn't mean you stop making him feel special. You were attractive and made him feel valued and that is why he pursued you to get you, stay attractive and valuing him to keep him; as you do so, he will long for your presence and give you his best. The woman who loves her husband, builds her home

ALWAYS BE A MAN WITH AN APPETITE

1. AN APPETITE FOR FOOD ☑

Especially if she is a good cook, she wants a man she can cook for and she watches him enjoy her meal. She will enjoy feeding him and eating with him.

2. AN APPETITE FOR HER PLEASURE☑

There is no point for a woman to be s*xy yet her man doesn't desire her. She wants her man to thirst after her, and crave for her. Even when she is not in the mood for s£x she wants to feel wanted; and maybe his appetite will get her in the mood. Every wife wants a husband who desires her breasts, lips, body, moaning and or**sm. A husband who is not only faithful to her but one who delights in making love to her.

3. APPETITE FOR HER CONVERSATION ☑

She wants her man to love talking with her, that he itches to know more about her and to hear from her. That this appetite causes him to see her more, call her phone more, study her more and look for her, pursue her even when married.

4. APPETITE FOR SUCCESS☑

She wants a man with ambition, a man who wakes up each day with a sense of purpose and vision. A man with passion in his words and with a go-getter spirit, a man who doesn't give up no matter how many obstacles come his way. That man is admirable to walk with.

5. APPETITE FOR MARRIAGE☑

She doesn't want to be stuck in the dating zone. If you love her and you're sure she is the One, put a ring on it, marry her. Don't date her for too long, be hungry for the next level. Women feel safe in commitment.

6. APPETITE FOR A FAMILY☑

She not only wants to get married but to have a husband who puts their family first. One who will be active in the home. A marriage built to last.

7. APPETITE FOR GOD ☑

A man after God's own heart, desperate for God will love the woman best because as he loves God he learns to love his woman.

8. APPETITE FOR LOVE☑

The coming together of man and woman would be empty and imbalanced if he didn't need her love like she needs his.
Your marriage will work by the grace of God.


Tasha J

SÈXUAL SECRETS WOMEN THAT WANT TO SN**CH YOUR HUSBAND KNOW THAT YOU DON'T DO (MARRIED COUPLES ONLY)

Lots of women are losing their husbands to strange women out there and most women are yet to know what these men see in these women that make them get glued to them even though they know that these women are more expensive and most are full of sèx% transmitted dìseases.

Hi wives, you need to know the sè%%xual secrets of these faceless women, sorry they are better than you in the bed, you need to step up to match up with them and beat them in their dirty games. Take your time to read this and get your husband back, these are their secrets:

1) THEY UNDERSTAND THE SÈXUAL WÈAKNESS OF MEN: They understand that one of the weaknesses of most men is s%èx and they make good use of this. Wives are careless about this, instead of using s%èx to create intimacy with their husbands; they use it to create animosity, anger, and bitterness between them and their husbands.

WHAT TO DO: Use sèx as a tool of love to create intimacy in your marriage, don’t use s3x to destroy your marriage, use it to build it.

2) THEY KÌSS LIKE MAD: In a report, most married men reported that their wives ha%te kìssing; they said it is difficult to get a decent kìss from their wives. Strange women are experts in this area they use kìssing as a weapon.

WHAT TO DO: Don’t turn kìssing into wrestling in your marriage, stop being local. Kìss your husband even when he is not expecting it.

3) THEY USE KÌL%LER UNDERWEAR: A man said he hates to see his wife in panties because according to him, she always looks like a wrestler. Lots of wives are like this, they are fond of wearing pants whose colours are different from their bras, looking like a rainbow, dirty pants, outdated underwear, a bra that looks like tarpaulin, wearing boxers that are meant for men, wearing knickers and tying of wrapper to bed. Strange women are creative in this regard they are fond of using neat, se%xy panties and bras. They always balance colours under there.

WHAT TO DO: Wives wake up, fashion starts from under, not from head gear or rope sieve bag, the real fashion is looking sè%xy when you undress before your husband.

4) THEY USE KÌLLER NIGHTIE: Strange women not only wear s%exy underwear, but they also wear killer nighties. While wives dress to bed and look like a soldier in bed, strange women dress to capture the man even before getting to bed

WHAT TO DO: When you are going out dress up, when you are going to bed dress down. Dress to capture the imagination of your husband, and get a very s%%èxy, nasty nightie for your husband’s eyes only. Men are moved by what they see, let your husband she the angel in you

5) THEY SEE S% AS A SERIOUS BUSINESS: You see it as a chore, you see it as dirty, you even wish it is removed from marriage, it never crosses your mind. But these strange ladies, see sè% as a serious business and do everything to keep their clients and customers. They use all marketing strategies, branding, product, packaging, marketing, and advertisement.

WHAT TO DO: Begin to see s££èx as a serious business, rebrand yourself, and repackage yourself because you are the real product.

6) THEY TREAT SE%^£X AS FOOD OF MEN: Wives are fond of saying “Is it food?” What a foolish statement! It’s not food, it’s more than what the Bible says it is water (Proverbs 5:15-19). Strange women are aware of the fact that men see s%%ex as food and they serve it hot and better

WHAT TO DO: Get into the fray, and treat it as the food of your husband. Serve it better than before, and never say, “Is it food?” again in your life, it is more than that

7) S%£ÈX IS IN THEIR MIND: Babies, house cleaning, cooking, and washing are in the minds of wives; sè% is never in their minds, they never think of it, but women put it in their minds and their body is ready no wonder they hardly look tired for it.

WHAT TO DO: At least two or three times a week, put s%èx in your to-do list, put it in your mind, and see how your marriage turns out to be

😎 THEY PLAN FOR SÈ% : Strange women plan for sè% the way you plan for your cooking; they look forward to it and carry their catch along in their plans.

WHAT TO DO: Plan for sè%^x in your marriage; don’t make it your husband’s affairs to plan for s%ex in your marriage. Let it be part of your schedule.

9) THEY SET TABLE FOR S% : Strange women do set table for great se% , soft music, blue light, candlelight, perfumed bed, velvet bed sheet, se%%xy outlook, and slippery fingers. Do you still wonder why men are running to them?

WHAT TO DO: Begin to set a table for s%%èx in your marriage, be creative, and surprise your husband with a se%xy outlook when he arrives from work. Children are already in bed, you look “Smashy ”, the whole house looks romantic, soft music, dinner with candlelight, Hug by the door and kiss on the lips. Who says your husband will not rush home tomorrow?

10) THEY ARE VERY ROMANTIC: Romance is a strange thing to some women, the away women don’t joke about it, they are experts in this. Whole lots of wives are romantically bankrupt but strange women are professional in it. Men love romantic women and strange women know this.

WHAT TO DO: become romantic, marriage is a love affair, don’t allow motherhood and wifehood to destroy your girlish instinct. Be romantic.

11) THEY FLIRT WITH THEIR MEN: Strange women are not only romantic, they are flirty. they give “come and do” eye contact, if you sit with them at a table they make sure their legs touch yours, and they put hands on men’s shoulders and touch men’s Legs as they discuss. They greet men with a good smile, they laugh excessively at men’s dry jokes. All these signals immoral men understand perfectly and they quickly go for them.

WORK TO DO: Get flirty with your husband, hold his hands in public, place your head on him when on a bus, touch his legs as you talk, sit close to him and sure to make your body touch his own, hold him longer when hugging, he is your husband girl, get flirty with him.

If anybody snatched your husband after you might have read this, then it’s your fault.

From today start improving your s%èx life don't come here to complain unless you have done this and it didn't work out. To all who disagree with this company because of se%x issues, kindly go to Court tomorrow, you will see the no. of people getting divorced.

Learning and relearning is part of maturity and education.


Tasha J.

I Love you! You love me!
Is a common saying. Everyone want to be in Love but not everyone is ready to pay the price. To know whether it is true love or not. I will mention few ways to test true love.

1. Truth test

True love is not afraid to tell the whole truth, but lust and infatuation have a lot to hide / keep. So, if you are still hiding behind one “finger”, keeping the truth from your partner because you don't want him or her to know the truth , who will later know? Don't be a deceiver. You're not a true lover. True love doesn't lie neither keep any records truth.

Be truthful and real. If he or she will stay, why not, she will. It is better you tell him or her than finding out later.

2. Time test

Real love do survive test of time because it is deeply rooted before it started. It is rooted in the other person’s total personality and not just the physical appearance because the more they know of each other, the more the love grows.

Check it, if that guy that used to come almost everyday now finds it difficult to see you for a whole month, fail to call or never pick your calls, it only shows that he is not in love and he has seen it all, it is time to go. Not a real love.

3. Goal test

True love is ready to give, even if it hurts, it is unselfish, committed, you want to do all you can to make the other party happy as far as he want in the fear of God, that is true love. If all what your partner want is to collect from you or have s*x with you, he or she is not in love.

If your desire is to get somebody to kiss, caress, fo**le and sleep with that's infatuation not true love. His her her goal must not be s*x.

4. Maturity test

Teenagers are not ripe enough for love affairs or anything call love, they can only be infatuated which they call love. If you are still a teenager you are deceiving yourself, if the person you are going into relationship with is a teenager you are both in Infatuated not love because True love can only come from matured, regenerated and unselfish mind.

True love is always matured both physically , emotionally , intellectually, spiritually, financially etc.

5. Prayer test

The person you are in love with, is he a lover of prayer and the word of God? If not, it is very dangerous to marry such a person. It is better to marry someone who is in love with prayer than someone who is in love with beer.

True love puts God first and is not afraid to go before him in prayer. Marry someone that love prayer not someone who doesn't see reasons why prayer is needed.

6. Character test

How is the character of your lover? Is he or she a drunkard, a smoker or a flirt? Does he/she put God first in everything? Does he or she believe in pure courtship? Have you ever found him fighting on the street, or you discover that he is a cultist and indulge in examination malpractices or embezzlement of company’s money?

If he or she is not of a good character and you know all these and you pretend as if you do not see, it shows that you are only being infatuated but not in real love. Real love is based on godly character and integrity.

7. Friends test

My dear! Friends matter. Who are the friends of your partner, are they believers or not? If they are not, you are about to sell yourself cheaply into the hand of a wolf that will devour you because no way, no how, they will influence your partner negatively.

Look at his or her friends, if they drink, smoke and womanise then you are just deceiving yourself because you've not found a true love partner.

8. God’s voice test

If God is not leading you into that relationship you are living dangerously by going into it.

Real love hear God’s voice and obeys it, infatuation and lust disdain the voice of God.

9. Distance test

Distance kills infatuation easily but in true love there is always Faithfulness no matter where your partner is.

In real love absence makes your heart grow, fond of the one you love, real love do survive the distance test.

10. Peace test

Do you have peace of mind in that relationship? Is your mind settle? Or does it take away your joy, happiness and all you now have is fear, guilt, sorrow and regret? This is a sign that the relationship is not based on true love.

Test that love, with your peace of mind. If peace is absent or far from it, God is not in it and love is far from it.

11. People’s test

I know that people will not choose for you but If everybody around you most especially your friends, parent and pastor disagree with your choice of partner. please, watch it.

If you're blindfolded with love people around you are not “blind together with you. If all of them disagree with you, it is not true love.

12. Protocol test

True love is obedient and submissive to constituted authority, infatuation and lust have no regard for anybody or authority.

If he or she is not ready to be submissive, obey your church leaders, feel you are too much in love to be corrected or directed by your church leaders, that's not true love.

13. Thought test

What is your thought towards your partner. Of good or evil? Do you always have a dirty thought about him or her? Thought of s*xual in*******se? This shows that it is not real love.

Real love always have a pure and godly thought towards the other party.

14. Money test

Is it someone you can trust your money with? Or all what his after is your money. Are you save with him or her when it comes to money? If you can't trust your money with your partner that is not real love. You're not safe.

Your lover must be someone you can trust your money, possession and everything you're to.

15. Domestic test

Can he or she do some domestic chores? Like cooking, washing of dish and cloth, sweeping and mopping of floor, laying of bedspread etc if you found out but you keep saying she will change you're on On Your Own. Real love is always domesticated.

16. Giving test

The person you're in love with must be a cheerful giver. Not someone who only receive. Must be ready to give all time not only when you need his or her assistant or help. Anyone who cannot give without being forced doesn't have real love for you. True love give.

17. Acceptance test

Does he or she accept you the way you're or he or she is just managing you. True love never manage each other but accept each other. If all he or she do is just to complaints about you all the time, your appearance, how you talk etc you've not got a true love.

18 Engagement Test

If you find out that the person you are engaged with or want to engaged with you lack all these, I beg, flee!

Test the Love and hold unto that one which is good.
Respect-CKJ
God bless your relationship 🙏

Marriage is beautiful

QUALITIES OF A GOOD MAN............

1.VISION AND PURPOSE: 🏅

Ask a man about his vision and purpose for his life. If he can’t answer gets offended, he’s not ready. A man doesn’t need a partner without a purpose or assignment. Women might try to give men a vision, but it’s something he must possess on his own. Only when he has a clear vision should he seek a woman to help him realize it.

2. COMMITMENT READINESS: ♥️

If a man says he wants a committed relationship, believe him. No matter how well you cook, clean, pamper, or please him, if he’s not ready for a relationship, nothing you do will change that. If he says he’s only looking for friends, take his word for it.

3. RESPECT FOR WOMEN: 🫂

Ask him about the women in his life—his mother, sisters, and exes. If he uses derogatory terms like “bitch,” it’s a red flag. If his mother’s opinion will always outweigh yours, that’s another warning sign. He must be willing to leave the past behind to truly commit to you.

4. PATIENCE WITH INTIMACY: 💋💞

A good man won’t pressure you for s*x when you first meet. You are not a car to be test-driven. If a man wants to test your body, emotions, and feelings upfront, it’s a sign to walk away.

5. ROLE MODELS: 💯

Every good man has someone he looks up to, someone he fears disappointing. If he says “no one,” be cautious—he might be too proud to be a good leader. The person he admires speaks volumes about his character.

6. SEEING YOUR TRUE WORTH: 💏

When asked what he sees in you, it’s okay if his first answer is about your appearance, men are visual. But he should also recognize the deeper qualities that make you who you are. He won’t protect what he doesn’t value, so he must see and appreciate your true worth.

7. KEEPING PROMISES: 🗣

A good man keeps his promises. If he consistently fails to call when he says he will, cancels dates, shows up late, or plays emotional games, take note. These are clear signs he doesn’t value, love, or care about you.

8. PROUD INTRODUCTIONS: 👫

How a man introduces you reveals a lot about the relationship. Steve Harvey says if a man introduces you without a title or just as a friend, you likely have nothing substantial. A man who loves you will give you a title, his lady, woman, fiancée, or wife.

9. AVOIDING DEROGATORY LANGUAGE: 🚦

A good man doesn’t frequently use terms like “bitch,” “hoe,” “nagging,” or “golddigger.” Men often use these terms to lower a woman’s expectations of them. If he constantly calls women “golddiggers,” he may be unwilling to provide much in the relationship.

10. PRIORITIZING YOUR HAPPINESS: 🥰😍

A good man puts you first. He cares about your concerns and wants to address them. He strives to make you happy and values your opinion. Providing for those he loves is in his DNA, and if he loves and cares for you, he’ll provide without limits.

11. FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITY: 🚨

A good man takes pride in paying for dinner, movie tickets, or other outings. If he insists on paying, it’s a sign he values and respects you. When a man genuinely cares, he’ll go the extra mile to impress and do right by you.

12. SELF-AWARENESS: 🎪

A good man knows who he is, his job title, and his financial standing. He must have a clear understanding of these things to focus on a relationship and provide the love and support his partner needs.

13. MORAL INTEGRITY: 🎆🎉

Being a man of God doesn’t automatically make him a good mate, but having strong morals does. If he’s patient, kind, unselfish, and righteous, he has the potential to be a good partner. A man with a quick temper or frustration issues may not make the best mate.

14. TRUTHFULNESS: 💯

A good man lives in truth, both with himself and others. He’s in tune with a higher spirit and believes in accountability for his actions. This type of man is responsible and holds himself to a high standard.

15. COMMITMENT TO MARRIAGE: 👬👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩

A good man doesn’t keep his partner as a girlfriend or “baby mama” for years on end. He marries his woman and takes pride in making her a proper lady in the eyes of society. He loves and respects her too much to do otherwise.

16. PRIDE IN BEING A GOOD MAN: 💪🦾

When you meet a good man, he takes pride in his role as a partner and as a role model for others. He knows he’s unique and valuable, so when you find Mr. Good Man, treat him accordingly. Remember, you must also be fruitful to capture and keep a good man.

17. SELF-LOVE: ❣️❤️💞

Finally, self-love is crucial. If you don’t love yourself, no man—no matter how great—can ever love you fully. Without self-love, everything else becomes pointless.

This is the essence of a good man. Recognize these traits, and when you find them, appreciate and nurture the relationship you have with such a man coming your way most of the time. Pray for wisdom to recognize good man.