Outofmatrixcoach

We tend to show pity or compassion
-depending on our grade of consciousness
we reached-
To people who suffer from an incurable disease.

That may come from our fear of losing what we already are;

Some shame that we have more
And maybe we forgot how to appreciate
what we already have;

A fear that one day we could lose it all;

A fear of the unknown;

Or, simply a gentle feeling of gratitude
For what we have and others have lost.

Some guilt for having more than others
And life's unfairness.

Or, simply a burst of gratitude for what we have
Right now, in this existence.

The truth is...
Life is uncertainty.
And we all die.
Afraid or not.
We do.

The only thing we can control
Is when we'll actually decide to start living.

When we'll actually go for what we want,

When we'll start appreciating what we gathered,
What we've been offered,
What we've achieved
What we've become.

I'll be happy when...that happens.
What if you find a way of being happy now
and see if you can be happier if that happens or not? 🧐

Cause life depends on many factors.
And you may not be yet a master manifestor.
And if you're not,
Any seed of doubt you've watered subconsciously
Will undermine your conscious thoughts.

You've started dying in the day you were born.
You don't know if you have weeks or years to live.
You're not safer than someone with terminal cancer
Just because you don't have a medical diagnostic.
So why the 🦆 you keep hanging on that day when you'll be happy?
When that day can be today?

If you're afraid of dying,
You're also afraid of living.
Cause there's not one without the other.

A wee reminder here,
Or, a loving slap in your face...
 
In case you’re as many of us,
Setting New Year’s resolutions
And then doing nothing or, too little about them.
Just to end up full of resentment
And disappointment...
 
The new you is possible
And it all starts with the desire of change.
 
Feeling that you need to transform,
Is the first step.
 
It’s not the baker’s fault you’re eating the cake.
It’s not your mother’s fault for not knowing
How to tie your laces.
It’s not your father’s fault for not knowing
How to ride a bike.
It’s not God’s, life’s, Universe’s fault
For not making it easier for you.
 
·        If there is something or someone to blame
              Then what does that make you?
 
The new you is there,
Waiting to emerge.
 
What about this year,
Stop blaming others,
Stop getting better at playing the victim
And step into your power
Of actually changing something?
 
If the cake is the problem,
Why are you eating it?
 
Go deeper.
 
·        Why does life feel so bitter that it needs a cake?
·        What unfulfilled need you have fades away with the taste of a cake?
·        How can you deal with it without the cake?
·       
 
If your behaviour or attitude towards something
Makes you feel resentful,
Why are you keep on doing it?
·        Is there another way?
·        And if it is,
Then how can you make it happen?
 
If your problem is addiction,
May it be drugs, s*x, travel
Or, anything else you can’t live without,
·        What are you trying to escape from?
 
The new you has found a way,
But will you commit
To go and meet your new you?
 
The only one who stops you
From being who you want and can be,
Is YOU.
 
Your power stays in the choices you make.
And there is always another choice.
A better choice.
 
This year, I don’t wish you a happy new year.
Because if your happiness is in that donut,
You know how the story ends.
 
I wish a new year,
Filled with clarity and vision,
Determination and commitment,
Strength and energy
And faith in yourself!
The discomfort you may feel now,
Whilst not having the donut or the bottle,
Will bring you many long-lasting years of happiness in the future.
 
And if you find my message dry...
It is becaus